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[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago

Femboys are you doing today I hope you have a great day in the morning and the witch fingers crossed for you

[–] [email protected] 4 points 19 hours ago

Femboys are the best for you and your mum.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

Femboys are you doing today

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you going to be home in time for the meeting

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago

Femboys are not that much of a boy

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you okay having the tables flipped?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you going to be home in time for the meeting?

[–] Heliumfart 3 points 1 day ago

Femboys are the future.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you going to be able to get the sinthe for the day?

Don't ask me why it says that, I do not know. I do know I used "sinthe" as short for absinthe.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you going to be able to get a new one for me to come over to my place?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

femboys are not a problem

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Femboys are not just about being able to use their tools for the things you want.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Femboys are the best

😂

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you doing today or tomorrow night for me to come in and get a ride

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Femboys are the most important part of the modern human mind

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you okay with that I don't know what to do

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Femboys are perfect

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you still in the office now

Huh, get back to work, femboys!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Femboys are you doing tonight and then we might go to a tire place

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

Sounds like a great evening.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Femboys are a great way for people

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Femboys and the likes of the likes of the likes of the likes of the likes

Well that went well.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Femboys are you proposing?

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow morning at six?

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Femboys are a positive side effect on unixporn

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Damn straight! Or not, no judgement.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

bahahahahah

[–] hector 4 points 1 day ago

"Femboys are so impressive because it's binary format"

Oh god, you know too much about me from the auto completion alone :3

[–] Pika 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

femboys are you going to be able to do something like that but like surprised someone else is going to be able to do something like that but like surprised someone else is going to be able to do something.

Yea it just loops.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Femboys are.

(I don't and have never used autocorrect on this phone, but I can still affirm their existence)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

femboys are you gonna be at the moment it doesn't actually have much if anything planned outside the door to be a better

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 36 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Femboys are encrypted

[–] [email protected] 30 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago

Femboys are the most important part of a modern society

Well I'll be damned...

[–] festnt 14 points 2 days ago

femboys are

(i dont have suggestions in my keyboard. i do have shift and ctrl though so i'm happy)

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Femboys are the same as the US

.... Currently in crisis?

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

... looking really vulnerable rn

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Femboys are known for not having a lot of the old Testament.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today, and the world is a lot better than it was before the internet existed, and the internet was a lot better than it was before the internet was invented.

From a FUTO Keyboard that's still in early training, FWIW.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Omg I had the same at first (using Futo too)

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Femboys are the best 👌

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 days ago

femboys are overrated

femboys aren't gay

femboys are the future

this sounds like someone's journey of self-acceptance

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

femboys are a good time for me

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago

Femboys are the only one I have in mind

So true lmao

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

femboys are the best thing to do

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

"Femboys are good for you guys."

I mean. Trans rights are human rights. So yes.

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