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I don't know any Lemmy users IRL. I have nudged my friends towards it. My partner has asked me to post things a few times. Just curious.

Edit: running total including the commenter: 32.5 people

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[–] ghost_towels 3 points 1 day ago

Just my husband, but not sure he counts as he doesn’t have an account. I did meet one of my closest friends on Reddit though.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Seen with my own eyeballs?

2

But I'm pretty sure they post to Mastadon and it is visible here on Lemmy. Or maybe they have accounts on Lemmy.

Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just my wife, who downloaded the app for me and subscribed to instances because it's too complicated and effort

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah that's certainly a weakness of signing up for the fediverse (Lemmy, mastodon, etc).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There seems to be 3 forum platforms.

  1. Lemmy
  2. Reddit
  3. Gab

I hear about reddit on the radio and people talk about reddit. No one talks about the other two.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Interesting. This is the first I heard of Gab

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Gab's exclusively for nazis.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's like a far right Lemmy? Huh. Kinda like bizarro Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I think the appeal is Trump is on Gab. (Don't quote me. I'm not sure.)

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago
[–] [email protected] 43 points 2 days ago

None. Although I've never asked

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just one, the only relatively tech-savvy person I know irl

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Added to the tally. I'm not sure if the tally is larger or smaller than I expected.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

Buddy, I don't even know myself.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I have at least 3 friends IRL that are on Lemmy. One of them I got to join, and two are friends I met doing mutual aid and other organizing projects. Later found out they're on here.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You are the only person so far that knows someone else's on Lemmy and you aren't reason they joined or vis-versa

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Huzzah! I know a bunch of geeks and radicals, so maybe that's why.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Woah very cool. Excuse my ignorance but is "mutual aid" a term for helping out your neighbor? Which is something people have always done but it often sounds like when people use the term "mutual aid" it is a bit more organized. Does that ring true for you?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's pretty much it. "Mutual aid" is meant to be distinct from "charity" which has a different kind of implication. Mutual aid is more about "we help each other". Charity can absolutely be organized, but tends to be more "structured" than mutual aid efforts.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Makes sense. Thanks

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 days ago

0 and I hope I never meet any of you.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Zero. However I would be interested in seeing anyone in real life. I feel like it would go do in Lemmy history.

[–] LambdaRX 31 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] LambdaRX 33 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

X-Files theme

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[–] otp 23 points 2 days ago

I've never met anyone in person who's even heard of Lemmy. Well, at least whenever it's brought up πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Trick question. I'm the only real user on the internet. Nice try.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

Dead internet fact

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Lemmy? I can’t even get them off the goddamned Facebook.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Just my partner and I.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Big fat goose egg 0. A lot of people I talk to don't even know what Reddit is, really.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Any time I’ve brought it up everybody glazes over the first time I say the words β€œinstance” or β€œfederated.” I’ve tried the email analogy, but they lose interest immediately.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Call them "communities", not "instances", that might work better

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Perhaps there's a better term, because "communities" already means something else here. Last thing we need is another Discord-calling-groups-'servers' mess.

"Homes" could be alright? or even "towns"?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

"Communities" would work well because most people understand that it describes a group of people with similar interests which is basically what Lemmy instances are (whereas "instance" sounds borderline meaningless to most people as if you're trying to push them onto a tech project they don't understand). The Lemmy "c/" could be called "subcommunities" or "sublemmies" or something like that which would help people who are familiar with Reddit understand what they are as well.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

This made me think about my struggles with trying to learn moves in fighting games.

The tutorial can’t tell me the move with actual button combinations. No. Instead I have to read it as punch + kick + grab first. And because I’m a friggin’ noob, I have to try to interpret what buttons those actions are.

How is this relevant? It really isn’t, the more I think about it. Bad comparison. Ah well. At least you know how sad I am at fighting games now.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

None, as far as I know.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

2 in my local area. It's how I found out about it. We have been slowly growing the community.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Two. The friend who sent me here and a friend I sent here.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oh God I would never admit this to anyone IRL

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

So far I don't think I've met anyone

PS. According to the subscribers of the Greek community, there are probably less than 70 Greeks online on lemmy (and probably some of them live abroad), so it's probably rather rare to find someone who uses it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I know one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

I know one who I stumble upon once in a while in the comments, we say hi to each other

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Zero. I know a couple of you nerds live in Philly and that terrifies me. I also know the reverse is true. This is the game we have agreed too.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

My partner was on it for like a minute but I don't think they use it anymore. Certainly not as much as I do.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

0, and happy to keep it that way.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Zero. I think one lives near me based on some posts they made (as in near the same major city, could still be hours away). Another mentioned going to the same convention I go to every year but it's a massive convention that brings in people from all over the world. The two friends I have that used RIF is fun for Reddit back in the day switched to the official app instead of trying alternatives.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Ha I'll add 0.5 to the count

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