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[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 hours ago

Ugh, I always have like 5 of these slow cooking in my brain at any given time. And I'll be warming up another 5 old hobbies I've not touched in years.

I'll eventually have a dam breaking moment where all my hobbies just switch at once.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

It's usually at the same rate it takes me to switch video games. If the interest survives two game changes then it deserves hobby money

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 hours ago

Yeah but I've also noticed that the moment I put money into a game is also the last time I play that game.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago

I do this. I write it down. I commit to a similar something cheap or free to see if I can stick with it.

Recently, I wanted to get back into playing the saxophone. I figured if I could update my knowledge on reading sheet music and play my wife's keyboard I would know that i was serious. I didn’t do shit. Saved hundreds of dollars.

[–] conciselyverbose 58 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm sure that would probably be smarter.

[–] can 17 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

At the very least go second-hand.

[–] conciselyverbose 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Depends what it is. I'll buy used books all day, but there's almost no level of savings where I'd buy most used electronics.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Really? I go used all the time for electronics. DSLRs and lenses (and flashes and other kit), tablets to 3d print a case for as the home automation panel, etc.

About the only electronics I dont go used are the actual electronics - esp32, sensors, a GPS module, etc.

I should really set a minimum timeframe before purchases though....

[–] conciselyverbose 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Cameras are different. Professional stuff is built to last forever and can be really good value.

I wouldn't take a used tablet or laptop for free, though. It's genuinely worth nothing to me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

More for me then!

A battery swap is nothing, and its real easy to turn an old android tablet into something useful. Hell ive got a nexus 10, two 7's, a gen 3 iPad all doing work for me on the daily.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago

I just whittle away at it with "eh, I probably shouldn't..." again and again. That is until I've hoarded enough interest or I'm feeling particularly impulsive

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 hours ago

100000% yes.

Learned this one long ago.

Took years for my wife to understand it.

The cheapness is STRONGER then my ADHD.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago

I do this with tools too. Buy it cheap. If I use it enough that it wears out, buy a good one.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago

Lol. So excited spent a bunch of time and money buying all the shit I needed to get into polymer clay sculpting... then I was like oh I should probably digitize my movie collection up to plex.

Now I'm like. Why did I want to get into sculpting?

I hate this. So does my dust/fur covered half completed first sculpt. Poor little guy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

I'll never buy something on the first research stint. I'll do my reseach, draw up my notes, then move on to the next obsession of the week. A few months later, if I get the same obsession on that topic, then putting money into the project is allowed

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I don't think this has anything to do with ADHD.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

Blind people are always complaining that things are hard to see, but that's normal! Everyone has trouble seeing! Especially when you leave your house on a summer day and it's super bright. Blind people need to act like they're so special, not being able to see is completely normal and not a disability. /s

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

Sorry, what? I just bought into a new hobby 🫠

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

I don't, at least not on purpose. I'll be in the rabbit hole from hours to days narrowing down what I want. I never intentionally wait to see if my opinion changes, but often I will drag my feet on buying something, and just never do it.