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ID: Drawing of a duck billed platypus underwater, they're wearing a rainbow coloured t shirt and a pink bum-bag, and saying: "Ally is not something you can self-identify as, it's a title that you earn. Let your actions speak for themselves!"

Credit: Sophie Labelle

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Help us out though, what can we do to be better allies? I try to be a good one, but I don't know if I'm coming up short.

[–] captain_aggravated 14 points 1 day ago

To the kind of person that draws and publishes a gay platypus comic? As much performative kowtowing as possible knowing that nothing can ever be enough. Consistently voting against conservative bullshit and treating gay people like you'd treat anyone else your entire life certainly isn't enough. It's like how the Westboro Baptists don't think you're a real Christian unless you're currently lighting a family planning center on fire. The people who are REALLY FUCKING INTO IT are mostly just making the moderates on their side look like puckered assholes.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Is it not about being as fair as you can? This is my approach at least .__.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

That‘s honestly a terribly broad question.

What are the people you are allies to telling you they want or are missing? Are you helping them in achieving what they want?

What are you doing for them besides that and do you think it is the right thing to do?

And yeah I don’t know, coming up short is a pretty loaded phrase. Some struggles we might still lose and still we have to fight regardless and relentlessly. And if you „fall short“ just try to do more, as well as the fact that we cannot all provide the same kind of support so its gonna be very personally biased either way

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

Wow, this thread had me bringing out the ban hammer a lot!

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[–] Gullible 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Hmm, I wonder what I managed to accomplish in the womb

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