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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (21 children)

Got a new floppy eared best mate on the weekend. Astro

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (10 children)

So we're all here because of a change in circumstances that none of us expected. I'm in my early 50s and a creature of habit, I don't cope well with change. I used to enjoy Twitter, but it's gone to shit, every third tweet is an irrelevant ad for something I've never expressed any interest in (crypto etc.). It's pretty much unusable now. I used to subscribe to The Age, hard copy, home delivered. But then Nine took it over and it started to go down hill, to the point where it's now the Herald Sun but for people who can read big words and long sentences. Pre-CoVid my favourite local bar was open five days a week, from at 5pm. I was usually the first in the door, and Fridays and Saturdays we'd be a big group handing a fair amount of money over the bar. Post-CoVid restrictions, the owners changed it to Fri/Sat only, late opening, and more of a club vibe to attract the younger crowd, so that killed it for me. I could go on, but this is turning into a bit of a rant, so I'll just finish by saying that because of the way my brain is wired, I need routine and predictability, and I'm really over shit changing around me in every aspect of my life and having no say in it. How do you guys cope with change?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't mind change. It helps me to learn things I wouldn't normally seek. What I don't like is that our community that I learnt so much from was basically deleted forcing people to splinter off. The more people, the wider range of topics, better the conversations. :(

I am grateful for this little corner :)

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'll let others reply with more serious answers but your post just gave me a thought which you may or may not enjoy:

People usually say "change is as good as a holiday" but as someone who doesn't like change, you could say "change is as good as a holiday to Adelaide"

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

i'm a millennial used to social media platforms changing every few years. I guess I've just given up on the concept of anything online being permanent.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

A lot of us are feeling this way with the loss of Reddit, I hadn't realised that I used it daily for the last decade.

I think it isn't as bad when you have something new and exciting to look forward to, like maybe you find another bar that ends up being better than the old one.

I was disappointed when Fairfax got bought and was hoping the newspapers wouldn't be part of the deal.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think humans naturally adapt - and that includes you. What did you do before Twitter, for example? And hell, you're here, instead of the DT on Reddit. It's similar, but there's still change involved.

What I think is important is recognising that maybe the "change" takes a little longer to adopt, or adapt to when you're older (and I say this as a late 30s individual who's starting to notice things like this). But that's okay, as long as we do evolve and change in some capacity. Otherwise we'd still be stuck in caves smashing rocks together to make fire.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Oh my gosh yay I found you all. I have been so sad without the DT I missed everyone :-( Where else to post my anecdotes such as the following:

Woolies massively messed up my order today. Received half of some other family’s order. I have all their dairy, including a bunch of kids stuff. They presumably are the ones with my week’s worth of dinner meats, among other things. I am now the owner of 6L of milk, 3 tubs of spreadable butter, a ton of kids yoghurt pouches, and much more. I am going to have to see if any of the mums at play group want any of it.

Woolies had been suspiciously good with my orders there for a while, absolutely zero issues the past several orders. I feel like I’m being punished for finally trusting them lol! Waiting to hear about a refund…

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (8 children)

I know we can't give awards so I'm just going to announce my unrequited love and respect for bacon for giving me a heads up for melbourne coming back online. Now I can recover my journal into a document and i'll just keep posting on this zone. Still, I like this DT now. So here I am, declaring my unrequited love and respect for my saviour, Bacon!!!!!

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (9 children)

Now that we have direct and open competition we'll see where the DT goes. I for one am not going back.

edit: awww you guys

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Needless to say, I'll go wherever there is a free breakfast

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I like it here now that I have learned how things work. I don't think Reddit is a very stable place to be right now, who knows what's going to happen there next?

Edit: and of course whereever breakfast is a good place to be. Before Bacon got here there was nothing much but potatoes availble.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (11 children)

Getting there slowly, but stronger and geez more femme every day. The boost to my oestrgen levels last week and quitting booze have had marked effects on my mood. I'm teary but it's cos I feel so in love with life at the moment. I planned to arrive at this moment and did.

I have so much to look forward to today and I'm grateful for everyone here for being here and sharing mine and your thoughts. So many kind and funny people in one place, this is the Melbourne we all know and love. The bits where we are not being tailgated down punt road or made to feel like pawns in a property investment scheme. People wonder why we love this place so much, it's because of the people not the cool shops and so called liveability.

Happy pride, both rainbow and city!!

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

lordy what a piece of shit day out there. peace to all those in the struggle outdoors i'm not leaving this apartment

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (29 children)

I did make this tonight. I called it Peking duck conFusion. I used rice noodles instead of rice. Oh how the Asian chef angels wept.

Yes that's a shadow of my head.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

Just like that, week long tum tum woes went away.

Cannot begin to describe that fortunate timing.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I was a longtime DT lurker and I'm stoked to have found this place. I'd barely been on reddit since the blackout began and just randomly checked it tonight to see if anythings going on, and saw the link to here on the reddit DT. I know it's technically back or whatever but I'm pretty sure the app I use is shutting down at the end of the month anyway, and the official one is garbage so here I am. Maybe it's meant to be. Unlikely to change lurker status beyond this though but we'll see🫠

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (11 children)

My mums partner is addicted to his PlayStation. He doesn't cook, clean, or help with anything when he's not at work because he just spends all his time smoking, drinking, and playing PlayStation. Over the weekend, it shit itself. It doesn't turn on. So he found an old Xbox 360 that my mum had in storage, and that worked for 24 hours before shitting itself too. Now he's walking around the house, banging cupboards and being a cunt because he can't play his videogames. Any minute now he's gonna spin some story to blame me. Giant man baby

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

I love the name of this monday thread btw, i loved garfield as a kid 🥰

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)

This whole thing is just… it’s fucked man. And I don’t understand the hate the mods are getting on this one. They are not the bad guys here. And hey if you were getting pushed on bullshit at work and your work were treating you like crap you’d push back too. Especially if you weren’t even getting paid.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Today has been shit, and likely to get worse this afternoon. BUT, the sparkly shoes I spent an obscene amount of money on have arrived, so there's a silver lining.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well that was a miserably wet walk this morning. Mr Woof kept mostly dry with his raincoat on, but is still a bit wet around the ears so I'm getting the whole wet dog smell experience.

The good news is that Thursday is the turning point for the days gettting longer again (although I believe getting warmer lags behind that). I am looking forward to seeing a bit more sun. I know a lot of people have strong preferences for summer or winter, but I am definitely in camp autumn & spring, the extremes I could do without.

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[–] Baku 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Feels like a bit of an Everything's coming up ~~Millhouse~~ Baku moment. I had my first drive today. Only 20 minutes, but I didn't crash. I've also come to the conclusion that I should temper my expectations a bit, because I was way overconfident 😂😂

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I'm going to make this dish tonight. I have some luv a duck Peking duck so I'm going to slice it and fry it. Take it out to rest. Fry some onions and add garlic, ginger, gochujang, kecap manis and the left over sauce from the packet to make a new sauce. Pair it with rice, steamed broccoli and top with an egg. I think it will taste good. Hopefully. Also kimchi on the side.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

The more work dump on me the longer I take cause I’m stressed out and overwhelmed. Not really sure where this leads tbh.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Should lead to changing jobs. Sounds dreadful.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

ugh i don’t want to go back to work

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Decided I'd attend the hour long technology information session (Teams meeting) from my bed. I have a tablet mount on it so I can watch ma' stories. "Oh it can handle scanning straight to OneDrive that's pretty cool", I thought as the sales rep was describing some of the features of the platform. Next thing I knew it was 40 minutes later, 3:05pm and the Teams meeting was silent with only me in there.

I didn't have my camera or mic on, thankfully. Oops.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Ugh, feeling pretty bleh this morning. Hope it's just waking up early in the morning and not... you know, sickness. Because I don't want to be sick for my birthday.

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[–] Baku 11 points 1 year ago

So, continuing on from my good updates on Saturday, my absolute favourite worker I've ever met left a few months ago. He took a job as a counsellor at a different org. There's been a few months of clearing it with various people and making sure there'd be no potential conflicts, and nobody could invent a way to twist a good thing into something terrible, but last week it was all approved and given the tick. I'm allowed to go counsel with him, and we have our first session tomorrow!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

My flat is now clean. Such peace

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Closed my eyes after my alarm and missed the first 15 min of a zoom meeting 😅

Resting your eyes is always a lie!

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Have a look at https://lemmyverse.net/communities if you want to find more communities to add to you aussie.zone account, you can paste the full html address into https://aussie.zone/search and it should appear.

If you are the first person to point towards the community it will take 10+ seconds to populate.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I reached out to u/sunandstarnoise just now.

Nobody’s really replying. They must think I’m a sex-bot🤖

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Phew. Finally finished and sent off a job application….first one in a while that I’ve put a decent effort into. Would love to move on before I’m told to cover my old colleagues vacant role for no extra pay🤞🏻

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Took advantage of the break in the weather to dash out and get my antihistamines.
In other news, the cats have now decided they want cat food, of which I had plenty since I stocked up just before they went off it. At least I can eat the chicken.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Have called in sick, now I'm going to take a bath and then eat chips on the couch for breakfast while I watch something bad. Today is a self care day because I sent a big bad email last night at work and it's eating my nerves.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Really looking forward to dinner. Happily I was forward thinking yesterday and have something prepared, I just need to heat it when I get home.

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