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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/OwnOlive9394 on 2024-01-24 00:25:51+00:00.
I s my gf a lesbian?
My (15m) long distance girlfriend (14f) today asked me about what would i think if she made out with another girl, i said that it would be really weird for me and wouldn’t be really comfortable, she said that she has done it some times and recently with her best friend at a party while drunk (she has only kissed really close friends and only kissed not made out with any of them) and that it is completely normal for girls to do so, even her first kiss was with a girl, she says she doesn’t like girls so it’s fine and she would be fine with me making out with a guy, which i wouldn’t do.
After i reacted like this she looked angry so i asked her what happened and she said she was expecting me to react differently (finding it as normal as she does) i apologised and said i would try to be more open minded and the thing was done.
Now im worrying while she sleeps about whether she likes girls or may be reconsidering her sexuality, am i just over worrying? should i talk more to her about this? am i too close minded?
TL;DR: my gf has made out with her female friends before and recently, she asks if im ok with it, im not and that’s a problem. should it be a problem?
Thanks in advance to everyone.