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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/livik4 on 2024-01-23 23:42:10+00:00.
We had been seeing each other for 3 months. Things were going well even though he wasn’t always the best communicator or quick responder. He was so sweet and seemed “obsessed” with me in person. I thought he would ask to make it official.
Before going home to his family out of state for a month he told me we could facetime whenever. Then he started getting distant. I asked to facetime once and he didn’t answer till the next day just saying he was sleeping. I expected him to ask to facetime after that. He took hours and hours to respond, just sending pictures of his face on snapchat.
When he got back from home, I asked if he could hang out. He said he couldn’t. I say okay. Then it’s my birthday. He hasn’t responded in a day. I tell him i’m confused and just want to talk to figure out what’s happening. He asks if i want to meet up and talk the next day, never wishing me a happy birthday even though he knew it was my birthday.
The next day, he never says anything and we never meet up. He hasn’t responded in two days. I feel used and stupid. He doesn’t have the decency to say happy birthday or give me closure? I did not do anything wrong. I’m just left here confused and he’s constantly on my mind while I know he doesn’t care at all. How can I move on from this? I wish he knew how much he hurt me, but I can’t give him the satisfaction of texting him again. Any advice? I just feel really hurt.
TDLR: I was ghosted by the guy i’ve been seeing for three months on my birthday. He gave me no explanation and I thought things were going well. I feel hurt and unsure of where to go from here. Do I just try and move on or confront him? How do I move on?