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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Exoticrobot22 on 2024-01-23 11:14:11+00:00.
I’m a 21m she’s 22F with one kid. She told me she’s only had about 3 other boyfriends her whole life. Same with me girlfriends wise. Now we’ve both talked to many people before, meaning gone on dates but nothing really turned into a relationship. She’s super into me and I love it. I’m not really complaining. I’m just scared if she’s like this with everyone?
I know she was like this 100% with her baby daddy. & definitely her other boyfriends. But I wonder if she’s obsessive over the guys she’s just had a fling with as well. Maybe it’s just my insecurities wondering why? But Idk im just worried a bit.
Like maybe she’s a bit on the crazy side? She is obsessive a bit but it didn’t really dawn on me that It can be a problem and maybe that’s why certain guys didn’t workout with her. Really what I’m wondering is maybe it’s all just a trauma response? Like im not saying it’s not genuine but maybe she really just bonds like this with everyone out of trauma from her past
TLDR: girlfriend is obsessive over me. Wonder if she’s just like this with everyone out of trauma response? She’s been like this with her other boyfriends. Wondering if she’s been like this with her hookups as well.