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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Outrageous_Put_4446 on 2024-01-23 10:18:59+00:00.
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TL;DR;: a guy i have been dating told me that he misses another girls ‘perfect built’ and it has messed with his head because he knows it’s almost impossible to find a girl with as perfect of a body again
so i’ve been talking to this guy for about 2 months, we’ve been on 1 date and overall i like him as he seems to reciprocate effort and display consistent interest for the most part .
but today he came out with the statement that someone he used to date had a perfect ass and build and that he misses her body because he knows it’s likely that he’ll never find someone ‘built’ like her again. he said that he doesn’t miss her as a person and that he thinks ‘girls like that’ (i’m assuming he means girls with a perfect body) are better to look at than be involved with (which is i feel is slightly misogynistic in itself).
he then goes on to say that it messed with his head dating a girl like her and it ‘ruined physical attraction’ for him.
i expressed how insensitive i thought he was being to me but also to women in general and his response was ‘Her booty was literally perfect what do you want from me i’m an honest straight forward person, it is what it is and Nobody will have a better booty than her, like i’m not going to lie’ and he told me that it shouldn’t even matter.
what would you do?