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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Sad-Blackberry-3318 on 2024-01-23 07:25:43+00:00.
Basically my Bf has this work friend who he's not super close to but considers a good friend. I've hung out with her a few times outside of work, and Every-time I have, she's given me some off vibes. Recently at work, she brought up my bf's and his ex gf's sex tape. I don't know why she did this, told her before that I do not ever want to talk about his past relationships since I am a very insecure person and she just keeps finding little ways to bring it up.
She's done this with other things and other people. For example, my friend has an absent father, and this girl tends to make extremely inappropriate jokes about it even after my friend told her to stop.
My bf's friend also makes fun of me to my bf. And acts slightly 'pick me' like, making fun of my mental illness and how I react to situations.
When I confronted her about this, she barely apologized, saying it's annoying that I think she hates me and that it's untair.
I'm super frustrated by this and feel like I'm losing my boyfriend to a girl who is already in a committed relationship. I feel somewhat disrespected by her and the fact my bf defends her just breaks my heart.
How do I get over this? Is my boyfriend going to leave me and forget everything we've been through just for some girl that he isn't even close to?
TDLR: My bf has a friend that doesn't like me and it's making me super insecure.