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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/LadderFunny9472 on 2024-01-23 05:10:10+00:00.
Why is it so easy for him to believe a lie?
My boyfriend believes I’ve cheated on him even though I haven’t
My 34m boyfriend is convinced I 28f cheated on him but it’s not true !
I 28f dealing with rumors about me cheating .
Not sure how to handle cheating rumors 34m and 28f
Not sure how to handle rumors about cheating
rumors
So my boyfriend( 34M) and I (28F) have been dating for almost three years. 6 months ago we took a break in which he stayed at a friends house. During that time i kept my normal routine and went to work and cared for my daughter as I always do. We went out on a date on a Thursday when we talked about our issues and decided to work things out. That’s Saturday i had already made plans to take my daughter to the movies . While at the movies my phone is being blown up by him accusing me of not actually being at the movies and having cheating on him while we were split.
He’s stated multiple times that people told him this but I have never talked to this other guy before . There are some coincidences that just so happen to occur …… this guy in question is my sister’s boyfriend’s cousin and he did express interest in me to my sister to which she told me and we laughed about it . It went no further than that cause that guy has never been on my radar . I actually find him kind of corny.
This guy in question is also my boyfriend’s brother’s girlfriend’s best friend which I’m not sure what he fed to her but he eluded to the fact that we talked and I’m just fed up because I’ve never even had a conversation with him.
It’s been this long and my boyfriend will say he believes me but every time he gets angry or drunk he brings it right back up.
I cannot live through this constant cycle.
It’s exhausting .
How would you got about this situation ? I am utterly lost for words and just ready to end the relationship.
TLDR: basically boyfriend doesn’t believe that i didn’t cheat on him even though there are some weird coincidences…. Maybe