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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Ok_Swimming_5336 on 2024-01-23 03:12:06+00:00.
My wife (28F) and I have been married for 6 years. She has slowly become emotionally abusive toward me and our children. She seems to not want to be a part of our family. Every time we go to the park, she stays home. Every time I suggest a family outing, she says no. Even for dinner time, I make dinner and she eats in the room. I love her, but I’m growing tired of her not wanting to be a mother to our children.
Last week we visited her sister for 6 nights and, my wife basically used it as a break from us while her sister and myself did everything together with the kids. I know it’s wrong, but just having the support of her for a week and having some help really woke up some feelings for her. She’s so beautiful and I can’t stop thinking about her. I fear I’m falling in love with her.
EDIT: I have ZERO intention of pursuing my sister in law. I am posting this because I don’t WANT THESE FEELINGS. Please do not judge me.
TL;DR: I’m falling in love with my wife’s older sister and need help moving on