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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/enfpThrowaw on 2024-01-22 23:21:27+00:00.
So i F30 met this M31 on a dating app about 1.5 months ago. I went with very low expectations cause someone I knew, knew him and he mentioned some stuff about his personality from his own perspective(didn't know him well). I was really really doubtful of everything and I was expecting red flags, only to find only green flags there.
Long story short, we don't match amazingly on an intellectual level (i think we kind of like different stuff and many times I feel i dont have much to say, I try to though) BUT:
He's incredibly kind and nice to me, never ever pushy about anything
He's really sweet romantic and expressive in body language when it comes to cuddles and acting sweet
I'm having the best sex of my life. I have had many partners before and even in my Long term relationships sex was very very average. With him, I never feel pressured to do anything, he does A LOT OF EFFORT to make me have fun, and overall its just so great.
It seems like its going on a more steady way (last week he said he's happy with me,met my friends etc) and I can't help but think that this is too good to be true? I'm not used to having things come to me that easy.
Also I may have this feeling bcs his hobbies and job are such that he attracts many girls and gets approached by them. He mentioned he had bad experiences with love bombing and many of them wanting to keep things just casual, but I do feel kind of unable to trust him, even though I don't really see bad signs yet.
Not sure how to proceed from now on. Could also the lack of intellectual connection be a problem? Is all this only based on great sex and cute lovey interactions?
TLDR; F30 met M31 recently and things go too well, not sure if I can trust this is for real.