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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/air_bunny8213 on 2024-01-22 20:17:34+00:00.
I have been talking with my girlfriend since last October and the relationship has been really great. I like our times with each other and the idea of us being able to be something. She is really sweet and somebody I could see forming a very strong relationship with, we both are demi so this is one of those relationships where both of us look forward to having something though it would take some warming up for the relationship to really be there. Anyways, our meetings with each other are spotty. We have tried to have a relationship though any attempts at forming a connction have been slow. i just don't have any idea how it is we are going to make things happen like this. I want to see the relationship progress though it is uncertain we are going to find the progress very fast. All we can do is talk to each other and stay home until in the best case scenario, either of us are able to meet in person. I think we have something great though at this time it is complicated to say if the relationship is going to make it. It just seems kind of, I don't know, bleak? Even though we have already had approval by her friends and relative of the relationship. It just seems complicated for the next step to really happen at this time.
Should I keep trying or is it a good idea to kind of adult up and say we may not be able to find the relationship here?
Any advice is appreciated, thanks.
tl;dr I met the girl/girlfriend I have been talking with back in October and things are mostly perfect if the relationship is able to happen, though it seems bleak even though we have talked and chatted since then. I think we could build on the relationship we have until they are prepared for something, there are so many signs of the relationship being positive, though it is like I don't have any idea when they are going to be prepared to take the next step in the relationship. It is really complicated to say if this really is a good strategy for us to date. I like her very much though like this it is complicated.
Any advice is appreciated, thank you.