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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Sad-Tip-272 on 2024-01-22 07:07:54+00:00.
Currently my partner (ex partner? I don't even know anymore) is ignoring me. He's ignoring me because I wouldn't fly halfway across the world to be with him for my birthday while was at a conference. He didn't initially invite me. I asked if we'd be spending it together and he told me he'd be at a conference. Then I said oh we won't spend it together and he said oh you don't want to visit then either.
I asked to plan things together that way we can pick dates and things. He said he didn't want to plan things with me since I turned him down. I said no worries I can plan trips with other people or go places alone.
I didn't think this was that big of a deal but then he decides to just ignore me for 2 weeks. He said one thing after I pestered him and it was that he spends his time with people there. It honestly feels likes punishing me for not doing what he wanted. I don't like it.
My plan was to take it as a break up but I also don't like the idea of just pretending things don't exist anymore. I want to have a conversation. I'm not sure what to do.
TLDR: my partner has been ignoring me and I'm not sure if I should try to talk to him or take it as an implied breakup