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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/User526100183610 on 2024-01-22 03:20:34+00:00.
Ok not me, but my fiancé. Basically my fiancé (Aidan)s dad is essentially a billionaire. I have always been so so close with my big sister and she was essentially in the role of my mom in a lot of ways (my mom is a narcissist). I started dating Aidan almost three years ago and started getting expensive gifts and trips and moved in together and got a cute little house and I have a huge engagement ring. I feel so terrible because I don’t want her to compare her life to mine or hate me because of who I’m with or the things I have. We used to relate a lot more (I didn’t go to college so we were both living and working at the same time) and would complain about rent and all that and now when she complains to me I can’t relate and don’t know what to say. We talked about it on FaceTime once and she started crying saying it’s hard sometimes seeing the things I have and she has to work long hours and get shit pay ( she’s a teacher bless her heart). She even asked me to open my bday presents from him just the two of us so it wouldn’t feel awkward when I opened hers and my other friends (they didn’t care). We also have our weddings around the same time and she is paying for hers from a small inheritance (we each got 50k from our grandma) meanwhile my fiancés parents are paying for mine. Her boyfriend also like hates rich people and so I’m scared he’s constantly talking shit about Aidan to her. What do I do? How can I not be an asshole in this situation?
TLDR: my fiancé comes from a mega rich family and I don’t want my sister to hate me for my life and the things I have and resent me for having it easier.