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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Civil_Ad_5011 on 2024-01-21 18:58:54+00:00.
I was at the gym and I happened to see a dude I knew that lived close to where my gf used to live ... when we were talking I mentioned to him who my gf was, instantly he had this look on his face like he was keeping something to himself, then he tells me he doesn't want to start any issues but he saw a guy get out of her car at her house (he described her car accurately and gave me the name of the guy ),
he seemed to have no ill intentions and said he didn't even know who her boyfriend was at the time but always kept that memory because it looked sketchy. So instantly I go to my gf and ask her who's _ She takes a couple seconds to think and says she doesn't know anyone with that name. I then tell her what this guy informed me of at the gym and she says " are you gonna trust this persons word over mine " and also says things like " 5 years of dating and still no trust"
I told her to stop gaslighting me because wtf is this, it was 12 am at a gym and that's what this guy tells me. So now I don't even know who to believe. If what he says was true it must have happened a year ago. Such a weird situation
TLDR: what do I do, this person was a neighbor to my gf and saw her and another dude, she's rejecting it and saying why am I trusting a random person. What step do I take next in this relationship?