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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Theunluckystylist on 2024-01-21 17:53:03+00:00.
We have only been talking for about two months now, he approached me first. We’ve had sex a few times like it’s nothing serious but he just treats me like shit.
Example 1, he freaked out over me talking to another guy (19m). Not even in a sexual context but he just started saying things like “He’s closer to your age anyways” “You like him I know it” so I eventually just cut contact with the other guy despite him being a huge help to me and my studies. Yet he talks to all these other women. Like I’ll see him sitting with other girls and flirting with them or I’ll see other women on his phone.
Example 2, all he does is talk about himself. I mean he’ll go on for hours, and I mean hours about himself. Which is fine, I like learning about the people in my life but whenever I talk about myself he gives such short answers/replies or makes it sexual. And he’s even straight up told me he doesn’t care about what I’m talking about when I was telling him about my day at school.
Example 3, I honestly figured he was losing interest in me and I was completely fine with that so I just stopped replying to his texts. However if he’s texted me and sees I’m posting on my socials, he’ll blow up my phone until I respond to him.
This is gotten to the point where he clearly just doesn’t enjoy talking to me anymore unless we’re talking about him or having sex. And whenever I try to cut contact, he just loses it on me. I don’t know what to do. All types of advice would be appreciated.
TLDR; This man won’t leave me alone despite just not enjoying me anymore and I don’t know how the fuck to get away from him.