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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/detectconan on 2024-01-21 16:44:32+00:00.
I (Male, 31) recently ended things with a girl (27) that I kind of liked and went on a few dates with.
A few instances that kind of bothered me: I'm introverted, so I talk less, and she was visibly frustrated with me because I wouldn't elaborate. She was not appreciative of my efforts, when I did favors for her when asked. She was also sometimes rude/confrontational when I very calmly asked her questions during conversations.
Looking back, I do think she shares some similarities with my ex, such as being dismissive and unappreciative. Is she a mean person or am I being too sensitive? How would you deal with similar situations as a HSP? I think one thing that I could improve is definitely calling it out early to avoid letting my anger build up. (I have also been told that I was too sensitive in the past, so I feel insecure about it.)
**TL;DR;** : How to know if a person is mean or if I am being too sensitive? How would you deal with dating in general as a HSP?