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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/flakeisshiny on 2024-01-20 21:16:27+00:00.
I don't know how to deal with it. At first I (M29)was staying calm but now it start to be really annoying. Sometimes I just talk normally to her then she (F21) turn it upside down saying that I not respect her.
She also bring my past in the situation many times. She read all my old chat conversation that I had with my ex. She ask me questions like did you liked when you kiss your ex? Did you still love her? Did you had good times with your ex?
I'm really confuse and I don't know what to reply to her. Its my past and I'm not talking with my ex and I'm not missing them. But my girlfriend blame me for old messages that I used to send to my ex when I was in relationship with them.
Is she toxic? How to deal with it? I'm really confused
Tldr:
My girlfriend always find a way to fight with me and I start to be tired from it. I love her and I want to make things better.