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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/36031535 on 2024-01-19 14:07:23+00:00.
We have been dating for 7 months and gotten really used to each other, we love each other very much and don't want to ever break up.
However we keep having weekly fights for stupid arguments, where I feel like I'm doing 80% of the lifting and she's doing 20% and compromising much more than her.
For example I was telling her the entire week and everyday reminding her about some "tasteful nudes" I was gonna send her on the weekend. And spent so much effort on them, but when we started talking and I started sending a couple pics after like 20min she told me she was so sleepy that she's gonna sleep, and I told her that that hurt me alot and I felt like shit and wanted to take those pictures back because I regret sending them and asked her if she thinks she did something wrong she said (no i didn't do anything wrong), and about feeling like shit she just told me (just don't feel like that) I feel like she should've at least put some effort into staying awake the same way I put efforts into taking those pics (which she wanted btw)
How should I feel or act about this and future similar fights?
TL;DR Me [21M] keep arguing with my [22F] girlfriend over stupid things where i feel like I'm doing all the heavy lifting