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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/ThrowRA84994948 on 2024-01-18 23:32:31+00:00.
So I’ll start off by saying that I love my girlfriend very much but we have been having problems for the past couple months. We are always arguing over anything and everything. We try talking things out but that only seems to help for a little while and it’s right back to us arguing again over the same stuff. She has a friend she’s known since middle school and we have always been pretty good friends ever since me and my gf met. It’s normal for me and her friend to talk every once in awhile but here recently for the past month or two we almost talk every single day. She knows me and my gf are having issues and she has been a great person to talk to as she knows what to say to make me feel better. I feel myself getting very attached to her emotionally and I’m starting to think she’s feeling the same way. The other night I asked her opinion on the situation and she stated that if it was her she would honestly break up if it would make me happier in the long run. We talked about it in person when she needed my help with something around the house. We ended up going out to eat (which is not unusual as we have done this numerous times) and I honestly had such a great time. She seems to want me to go shopping with her or help her around the house with things here lately. Is she doing this as a friends type of way or is she interested in me? I honestly feel as if I’m emotionally cheating and don’t know what to think.
TLDR: talking to my girlfriends friend daily and starting to get emotionally attached. I feel her friend is having the same feeling. Friend told me I should break up with my gf