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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/pervy23curvy on 2024-01-18 21:45:53+00:00.
SIL and I are very good friends and we get along really well as well except that she has strictly told me she doesn't want us both to ever get matching clothes..
Now I find it weird cos sometimes while shopping we do end up liking the same clothe...to which she'll either say that only I should get it and she'll drop it OR Vice versa..
I've told her ample times that I won't wear it outside...but she just says blatantly no and tells me she just doesn't want us wearing Same... ALTHOUGH she is fine if her mother (my MIL) wears the same as her. I mean idc but I find it Very strange...and she never ever tells me a straight reason to that.
(Additonal info: sil does feel insecure of herself, especially her over weight and has on multiple occasions told me how her brother (my husband) will compliment me (on being slim and pretty) but would roast her infront of everyone, which makes her feel bad).
Idk could the reason be this? Cos that's the only thing that comes to my head!
Tldr: S.I.L doesn't want me and her to ever wear the same clothes...but has no issue if she wears the same with her mom? She has never given me a straight reason why Soo I'm super confused.