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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/erohir on 2024-01-19 12:29:06+00:00.
So after like a week knowing each other and dating 2-3 days afterwards, they got into a relationship.
I know them for a while as they are part of the closer people I know, the girl a couple of weeks, the boy 2 years maybe.The girl was with a guy for a period of time who she really seemed normal, it was not official, but felt genuine.
But now its like she ran off the rails. They have been together for a week now, she is posting many photos to social media when they spend time together, and when they aren't, music/book quotes appear, changed her entire online appearance (everything you can imagine). Meanwhile the guy barely shows anything.
About the girl: She is diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, had already 2 suicide attempts because of her past 2 relationship. Considers herself as bisexual, but all of the stuff about it got deleted from online when they got together.
About the guy: He had a relationship within the group of friends I know. He is not the responsible and loyal type, eventually the girl had enought and left him after a year. He is deeply religious and hate gay people.
I am affraid she is gonna get more hurt than ever, but when I tried to even hint about the danger of the situation (not bad mouthing the guy), but she got really mad, all she can talk about is how happy she feels and how much she loves him.
What should I do? I can't talk to her right now because I am scared I will make things just worse.
TL;DR!A girl I know is madly in love with someone who eventually will just make her life miserable again.