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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Brunetteforever on 2024-01-19 10:12:19+00:00.
We are long distance fyi. A few states away, but know him (brothers old pal from his high school). We had plans this February to see each-other.
He suddenly stopped speaking to me for no reason. No reason. We weren’t fighting. In fact we were joking about an inside joke the last day we spoke. I tried to send him a message after not hearing from him all day on Monday. He never responded… or the next day. Wednesday I asked if everything was alright. No answer.
It was clear he wasn’t interested. So I said “It’s clear to me we’re not on the same page anymore. I take your absence of response as a loss of interest. And that’s fine, you could have just been frank about it. Either way, have a good one.”
No answer. Then hours later saw he watched my Instagram stories of my selfies. Afterward today, I got the courage to delete him on IG and Tiktok.
My tiktok profile views are private. But I turned them on tonight and noticed he was one of my newest profile viewers today. He hasn’t viewed my profile ever since we first followed eachother. I guess he wanted to see if I deleted him. I don’t even understand why. Why would he bother to check that?
TL;DR: Talking stages with a guy I know. He was planning to fly to see me in February. Randomly stopped talking to me. Realizing what was going on I messaged him and told him I can see he’s not interested and to have a good one. He looked at my IG stories hours later. I then deleted him on IG and Tiktok today. Went on my profile views on tiktok and saw he was one of my newest profile viewers. Which he hasn’t viewed my tiktok since we first became friends on it. I don’t know why.