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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/BoringFlower6622 on 2024-01-19 07:19:00+00:00.
Me 23F and my partner 25M have been together 4 years. I am white he is Indian, so
when we first got together he would always tell me we could never end up together and he couldn’t tell his parents.. I should’ve known then but I was young and it was my first relationship. So I just went with it, we ended up dating in secret for 3.5 years finally his parents asked him recently and he told them about us and they were welcoming and everything was fine but now I know we are still so different he wants to live with his parents and I cannot, he wants me to not drink anymore, practice Hinduism and not Christianity. We have talked about all this and we also just disagree on so many other beliefs. I also just feel like i deserve better he’s a good guy and all but there’s lots of lack of effort and all.
TL;DR! I just can’t bring myself to let go I guess I’m just scared of the change and loosing that sense of having someone always there, basically being alone and not finding someone else. I think we both know we are gonna break up and just keep putting it off but I know I need to do it but I can’t find the courage, I need some advice..