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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Daquii on 2024-01-19 03:25:12+00:00.
I (M26) have been with my fiancée (F26) for 5 months and we are getting married late this year. When discussing the idea of our song for the first dance, she told me she “already knows exactly what it should be”, Lips of an Angel by Hinder.
Now don’t get me wrong, I like some butt rock every now and then, but the entire premise of that song is a man calling his mistress and cheating on his woman. Some questionable wedding lyrics in the song, for those who don’t know it, are “you make it hard to be faithful”, or “my girls in the next room, sometimes I wish she was you”.
Is this a serious no-no? Is this a red flag of some sort? I didn’t even know what to tell her, I explained the lyrics and everything to her but she said “nobody even knows that, the song just sounds nice. It sounds like a love song”
!?!!?!
TLDR: My fiancée wants our wedding song to be a song about cheating on your spouse.