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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Outrageous-Bad-4736 on 2024-01-19 03:08:54+00:00.
I've been seeing a man who I have developed deep feeling for over the past 6 months. He has a fairly intense job, has language classes he teaches on Saturday and an 18 y/o daughter. It seems like with all that he wouldn't necessarily pursue a relationship but he did with me. We have so much in common, so many shared interests and the conversation is amazing. The problem is that he always tries to make plans at the last minute which is hard for me because I typically plan out my week to have time for my friends, family, and the things I need to do for myself. It's become a struggle because whenever we do try to plan ahead something always comes up and that plan takes time away from something else I could have done. It's getting very hard and no matter how I feel I'm starting to want to just walk away. I don't want him to think I'm trying to manipulate him or something but I can't manage having a relationship like this. Any experience or advice would be much appreciated.
TL;DR Am I wrong to expect him to be able to make space and plan ahead with me?