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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/AutismCreatureNSFW on 2024-01-18 21:01:16+00:00.
For context My partner is fine with me kissing other women and not men which I‘m fine with as I don’t really have a desire to kiss other men besides him and even with women it’s never serious just for fun and when we’re out drinking, today I told him verbatim when he was feeling insecure today over my past flings “that I like kissing you (my partner) the best” and he said that was icky and not nice to hear. I did not mean to hurt him or make him feel even more insecure with this comment and I apologized but idk what else I should say to make him feel better. Would this comment also make you guys feel icky? He also thinks it’s weird I’m still friends with quite a few people I’ve hooked up with in the past and seems insecure about it. I wish I could put his insecurities to rest. Note: We’ve been together since September but have not used the L word yet which I’m fine with too I don’t know if we’re ready for that.
TL;DR: My partner said me saying I like kissing him the best (I only kiss other women and not men) was icky and idk how to take that.