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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Top-Consideration588 on 2024-01-18 19:58:21+00:00.
I (31F) found out that my boyfriend (33M) has a porn subscription and a throwaway twitter full of just porn. We have been together for over 10+ years and we have had our problems in the past so he knows how I feel about the subject. If we had a healthy sex life I wouldn’t mind the porn but when it’s just twice a month at most I feel he’s picking porn over me. When we do have sex I feel like he isn’t into it. When he thinks I’m asleep and gets off he sounds like he enjoys it but when it’s me and him he doesn’t sound anything like that. I stopped trying to initiate sex awhile back before I knew about this because anytime I slightly initiated anything close to intimacy he would reject me and say he’s just to lazy to do anything but then later would get off while I’m “asleep”. I just feel so unwanted.
TLDR- My SO watches porn more than he sleeps with me and makes me feel unwanted