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Hi everyone!

Thought it would be suitable to post this thread today. I assume there's a number of others like it, but my Danish is still very modest, so...

Being a driving factor in my family's decision to move to Denmark, and also being a father to a girl, equal rights were a big factor in why we chose Denmark as a place we'd like to move to. Having seen what being pregnant meant for my wife (having to stick to a horrible job just cause she was guaranteed she wouldn't be laid off for taking her maternity leave), it's a matter I feel for on a very personal level.

So in hopes of learning more about Denmark before we manage to move, I'd like to know how equal rights and opportunities function in real world in Denmark? I know Denmark's been in the company of countries that have full women's rights for a long time now (currently only 14 countries I believe), but I think it's this very sub I've stumbled upon a post a few months ago about a girl who finished a (traditionally male) trade school and then got ridiculed by her colleagues when she started working.

I don't doubt Denmark is on a whole other level compared to Croatia where we are from, but I wonder how the traditional views have really changed over the years and how equal women in Denmark really feel on day to day basis?

Thanks and enjoy your day!


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The original was posted on /r/denmark by /u/bosko43buha at 2024-03-08 13:41:48+00:00.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (2 children)

bosko43buha (OP) at 2024-03-08 14:04:24+00:00 ID: ktx0guu


I didn't aim to make it a loaded question, I was interested to learn about how women see their equality in everday life - similar to the article I've mentioned.

Obviously, situations like that can happen no matter what and it's got more to do with individuals, rather than an entire society.

The example I mentioned for Croatia (and my wife), women often get laid off when pregnant, unless they have a permanent contract. And even then, people are generally unhappy cause they are missing from work (even though a temp can potentialy be hired). That's something I'd consider societal in this case.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

LilanKahn at 2024-03-08 14:11:26+00:00 ID: ktx1iyj


The example I mentioned for Croatia (and my wife), women often get laid off when pregnant, unless they have a permanent contract.

Wont happen in Denmark, as the wrongful termination payment would come faster than you can scream lawyer.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

proevligeathoerher at 2024-03-08 14:14:34+00:00 ID: ktx205h


I think in Denmark we have a lot of structual protection like laws, unions and so on, which protects us from a large amount of the sexism women in other places expierence. I'm currently pregnant, and while my job is in the private sector and isn't unionised, I do not fear being fired because of being pregnant, because that simply isn't allowed and my company would be in huge trouble if they did.

Instead, in my experience, the sexism I've personally expierenced is more on the individual level. Meaning people (professors at university, family members, strangers, partners, and so on) who treated me differently because of my gender. Be it with a comment (like my university professor commenting on how he was surpised a 'girl knew so much about politics' after I'd written a paper on Brexit), or extended family members expecting me to help out with cleaning, cooking and childrearing at family gatherings while my male cousin weren't expected to do the same. Or how I, in my old job (I worked with marketing for pilots in aviation), would constantly have to deal with comments about my apperance, gender, and would constantly be delegated the 'female tasks' despite them not being part of my job despription.

Sexism comes in a lot of forms, and in my expierence it's usually on a individual basis, but I've friends who move in a different part of society than I do, who both expierence more severe sexism and more structual sexism than I do.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

bosko43buha (OP) at 2024-03-08 14:52:17+00:00 ID: ktx7yxr


Yeah, we have same laws here, but the biggest issue is that the laws are often "worked around". My wife had a colleague who didn't have a permanent contract and even that only meant that the employer couldn't fire her only until she came back to work. By that time, they already found a replacement for her so it was just a technicality.

I understand that things like that are better regulated and followed through in Denmark.