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There's some apps I hate like Instagram and WhatsApp, but stick around because it's the only way I can contact some friends and family. The network effect is strong and I can't really leave.
With Reddit, I don't care. If there's enough content somewhere else, even if it's a fraction of the volume (there was no way I could get through everything on Reddit anyway) then it's an easy switch.
I just revolted and said, if anyone wants to communicate with me, they need to use e.g. Signal.
I'm absolutely not installing this spyware on my phone
A good chunk of my close family all use iPhones and iMessage to communicate with each other - but they won't add me to any group conversations because "green bubbles bad"... I spun up a Matrix server, created an account for everyone, pre-joined them to a room with all of us in it and sent everyone their credentials along with a link to Element for iOS so that all they had to do was download an app and copy/paste into two fields.
This worked great for about two or three months until most of them went back to their group chats over iMessage and I was back to being excluded. Only one of them still uses Element to communicate with me, but I suppose that's still somewhat a victory since previously we were using Facebook Messenger (bleh) to chat.
I guess there are some sayings that still ring true, such as "Old habits die hard" or "Humans are creatures of habit"... 😮💨
It sucks, because it's incredibly difficult for me to not take that personally as "They don't seem to care about me to try to meet me half way to keep in touch". I don't know what more I could do aside from purchasing an iPhone, which is just not going to happen.
What about this?
Ah that unfortunately requires a Mac in order to use, as it uses the Mac as a relay, which while I do have an older MacBook Pro - it generally runs Linux (Fedora) on it, and is definitely not always-online.