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I'm currently struggling to find my home. I have an account here at lemmy.ml, where most of my posts are, and one at kbin.

Why do you think your instance is the place to be?

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[โ€“] SavvyWolf 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I joined Beehaw early on when things where a lot quieter because I liked what they were trying to do (and back then there were only like two instances, and I didn't want to put more load on lemmy.ml).

Joined sh.itjust.works to make a community after the sysadmin just casually walked up with a huge server, which is a level of swagger I can get behind. I've since moved to this as my "main" account since Beehaw defederated with lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works (which sucks, but is understandable).

May move again to pawb.social at some point, although that means people will know something about me. :P

Edit: And now pawb.social has defederated with sh.itjust.works... I'm getting more and more tempted to just roll my own personal instance just for me...

[โ€“] goforliftoff 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Where / how can you see a list of who is (de)federated with whom?

[โ€“] SavvyWolf 2 points 1 year ago

At the bottom of each page, there's a link for "instances", which shows who the current instance has blocked.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you're Ok with NSFW there is also yiffit.net. As far as I know we aren't defederated with anyone yet.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Looks like it has defederated with some instances, but for very good reason

you can check here https://yiffit.net/instances

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Oh neat, I didn't know that list existed, thanks! And yea I'm fine with the ones it has defederated from lol