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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Apparently all your friends and family are comfortable with hostnames and ip addresses. Not everyone's are. Also, not everyone wants to buy a static ip or setup a dynamic dns service or similar. Plex is definitely simpler. I have used both.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Apparently all your friends and family are comfortable with hostnames and ip addresses.

I mean pretty much everyone I know uses web browsers and sometimes type in web addresses lol

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You seem a little out of touch with how people think.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I doubt they're thinking at all if writing a web address is too much lol

"Facebook dot what? Stop the tech speak, nerd!"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

And yet most people will just type "facebook" into the omnibar in their browser and click the first result that google gives them.

Yes... A LOT, and I do mean a significantly plurality... have no fucking clue what a URL is.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Then, you are completely out of touch with how most people use computers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I'm not sure if you're just surrounded by mentally deficient people for some reason or seriously underestimating them, but pretty much everyone I know can type in a website address lol

Or maybe it's some zoomie "what's a computer" thing

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago (2 children)

They can if forced to, but they never have to do that normally. What you're telling people to do is make normal people do things they don't normally do when browsing the web and saying its as easy as making them sign up for a Plex account. Most people have done similar things as the latter, but they only have to type a full URL once or twice in their lifetime.

That is way beyond the comfort zone of most people I know. The general use case of web browser for normal people is googling the website they want and clicking the link while being blissfully unaware of what a URL is or does.

This does not mean they are mentally deficient, it just means they spend their mental processing and memory on other things they deem actually important.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

How is someone who can't manage to copy and paste "www.my-jellyfin-server.com" into the address bar going to figure out where to get a Plex account?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Tell them to copy and paste that text from their phone to their TV and tell me how it goes. First, you gotta explain what apps are available on whatever TV they're using, though.

You also conveniently forget to mention the amount of work you need to setup a domain name that points to your Jellyfin server vs just telling them to sign up for a Plex account and tell you the email address they used.

Btw, the average person have no trouble signing up for an online account. How do you think people create an account for their social media, email address, and online shopping? Just google Plex and sign up. It's a familiar process for them, unlike dealing with URLs or VPN apps.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago

This thread is comparing the ease of setup between Plex and Jellyfin and having to purchase your own domain and set a bunch of stuff up on your own definitely doesn't make for an easier install. You might be right about people's ability to type in a URL, but this definitely illustrates the added difficulty in setting up Jellyfin.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

they only have to type a full URL once or twice in their lifetime.

We know very different sort of people. Remember that older people wrote the full address as the default, bookmarks and especially googling everything (and "apps") only became the default later on.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago

Yeah, but the proportion of people who used computers during that time is much smaller than the generations after, meaning they only represent a very small minority of non-technical computer users.

Not to mention that my country lagged behind in terms of computer adoption during the 90's and 00's compared to developed nations, so it is even less likely for you to find that category of people around me.

[–] pipes 9 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I understand this but we have to realize that what makes Plex simpler is the fact that they are a network intermediary that does what it wants with your home networks; it's like insisting that NordVPN is better than Mullvad

IMHO the only solution will be improving wireguard guis and stuff, Jellyfin is not lacking.

[–] sugar_in_your_tea 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I haven't used Plex, so I'm not exactly sure what it's doing, but I'm guessing it presents you some sort of search to find the server? Isn't that pretty much the same as a domain name, just w/ a search bar instead of a URL bar? If your domain is easy to remember, I guess I don't see an issue. I've also heard you can connect to multiple servers, so maybe that's what people are talking about.

Regardless, I think Jellyfin could handle both. Get some community-funded STUN relay servers to handle discovery and implement a way (if it doesn't already) to have your client connect to multiple servers. There should also be a way to copy all the configs from one client to another (say, a QR code or UUID, settings copied over the same STUN server).

My main issue is that this could open up servers to more potential attack vectors, and Jellyfin already has some security weaknesses. But other than that, I'd be happy to help implement this sort of thing, a STUN server can be run on as little as a $5 VPS.

[–] pipes 2 points 5 days ago

I haven't used Plex in a decade and I use Jellyfin, what you're describing sounds perfect. I read up a bit on STUN servers and it's what Syncthing uses, but they also mantain discovery and relay servers (and anyone can host one and can be added to the public list). Security wise they seem to be doing fine?(I'm not an expert, just an informed user)

Idk what combo Jellyfin would benefit the most from; are relay servers needed? The workload is similar but probably higher on average, people stream more often than they do backups

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No, Plex lets you invite friends to your server with a link they can click and sign up. Then they can type a code into their TV app or login to a browser and watch basically like a standard streaming setup they already probably have used.

Jellyfin is less familiar. Arguably not much more difficult but people aren't always rational. The unfamiliar is often intimidating.

[–] sugar_in_your_tea 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Can't you just send your link to them over SMS, IM, or email? Is the main difference that you can do this from the UI?

I guess entering a code on the TV is pretty cool though. Maybe I'll poke around in the Jellyfin community to see what the interest is in such a feature, because it should be possible w/ minimal hosting costs.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Yeah, you have two options, as the server owner:

  1. You can enter a user's email from the Plex UI to invite a user to your library. The user then gets an email asking them to sign up if they don't already have an account.

  2. You can generate/send a link to join, any way you choose.

Once signed up, the user can accept the library invitation, then they login to the TV or other device. The code is used for the TV login process, like on other streaming platforms. But yeah, you could do an account-less version of this for Jellyfin, which I think laypeople would like.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I wonder if having a “sign in” page within jellyfin that just fronts a wireguard configuration panel, saves the creds, and automatically connects and routes app traffic over the vpn iface is a remotely viable idea.

[–] pipes 1 points 5 days ago

That sounds good to me, we use wireguard in the family when out and about to access my homeserver, but I'd love if Jellyfin could create ad-hoc tunnels, it'd make us feel safe enough sharing our libraries with friends, perhaps it will convince many Plex users too. What are funkwhale users doing to share their music for example?

The other commenter wrote about STUN servers (IP), I've seen that Syncthing uses them as well, together with discovery and relay servers. Would wireguard be used at any of this stages or standalone? Personally I have no idea, I'm just an observant user 😅

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

That depends on if someone wants it enough to make it happen.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

NordVPN is better than Mullvad

Off topic, but what? Is Nord doing wacky shit with network settings?

[–] pipes 2 points 5 days ago

I'm not a security expert but my guts (and the many things I read about this stuff over many years) tell me that cheap highly marketed VPNs like Nord seek the less informed users that sign up because half of their favorite youtubers sent them there, the default M.O. is install the (proprietary) app. It might be possible to use them safely but it's not what's happening to 99% of the customers.

They operate in grey legal areas, there are many scandals over the years, they write in their TOS that they can change the terms themselves without notice, if you use their service, you agree at any time.

When I wrote that they do what they want w your network, this is what I'm referring to; idk about the "settings", more like selling access to your residential line (perhaps to other VPN customers)

[–] iAmTheTot 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Excuse me, I thought the comment I replied to was talking about the setup process of the jellyfin server itself.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well yeah maybe that too, but a server no one connects to is a paperweight. The connection part confuses laypeople

[–] iAmTheTot 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I mean, even in that regard, I did not find it that hard, but I do have a domain.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

As I said, most people don't have that nor do they want to set it up.

[–] iAmTheTot 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I wasn't ignoring you. I explicitly put the caveat after "but" specifically because of what you said.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Gotcha. I read the tone differently, but all good.