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[โ€“] sbv 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I thought I was smart/knowledgeable until I started working with people who really are smart/knowledgeable.

I tried to keep up and be one of them, but I do better when I just try to follow along with them and consider alternatives and implications of what they propose.

I wouldn't say I'm the token idiot, but I have perspectives they don't, and those are useful. Then again, that's exactly what the token idiot would say.

[โ€“] [email protected] 27 points 1 day ago

The fact that you can follow along & offer a different perspective counts for more than you think, because it shows that you understand.

The worst is the people who think they're the smartest person in the room, don't understand what anyone is trying to explain to them, and insist on doing everything their way.