Wow. So after my initial discussion with my physician, I was told it could be a few months. I have a sister that in the past year or two also got a referral and is now getting care for ADHD. If someone told me I'd be on a list for even a year before a screening, I'd write it off as just something that's not going to happen. I can't imagine a doctor telling me something would take 7+ years, and then having that more or less validated. My dude, you've got my sympathy, and I hope things are functioning ok for you and you get the help your looking for. I shouldn't take my situation for granted and just get it done.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago

The healthcare system here has been savagely underfunded for decades, mental health more so. I've been chasing up non-profit places to try and get coaching or something, and exploring options for affordable private health insurance. My life hasn't imploded yet, but it's sure trying. I am currently able to hold down a full time job, I'm not homeless, and my marriage hasn't dissolved....for now.

I wasn't trying to say, like: oh you think you have it bad? Well buddy let me clue you in!

The fact your doctor knew you were probably suffering from something that would prevent you from easily following up, then chiding you for waiting so long to ask about it....is just ridiculous. I hope we both get the help we need soon,