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I have heard from multiple people that eye contact is essential in letting a girl (or guy, I guess) know you're interested.

But what is the 411 when it comes to said eye contact? Do you keep looking until she does? Do you then keep staring? Or is like looking at the sun? What's the deal?

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 2 days ago (2 children)

From my experience, if you make eye contact, look away briefly, then look back. If she's still looking at you, hold eye contact for a moment and smile. If she likes you, she'll likely smile back.

If she's purposely avoiding making eye contact the second time, don't be a creep, carry on with your day 👌

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

No no no. If she's purposely avoiding eye contact you have to stare at her with wide open eyes and a big smile.

If she walks away follow her, if she starts running away from you, run after her. She's telling you to come over.

That's how you conquer a woman /s

[–] Iamsqueegee 14 points 2 days ago

There’s a very thin line between the longing look of admiration and the cold gaze of a serial killer.