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Perhaps I'm old-fashioned, but I'm of the view that if you can't afford to have kids, you probably shouldn't have kids.
Children are long-term costs and sometimes life happens. You could lose your job, a cost-of-living crisis could hit, or your relationship fall apart and mean there's only one income now (this is the reason I grew up in poverty).
Besides, should we really just let some children grow up cold and hungry for the crime of being born to 'irresponsible' parents?
If you fall on hard times, that's perfectly understandable. But there's a lot of people out there who have kids knowing full well that they can't afford them. Some of which aren't even in work.
That's completely irresponsible and an awful thing for the child to have to live with.
Unfortunately that answer just leads to punishing all due to some people.
Even if we could change the benifit system to value the position of the parents whe they choose to have children.
You would still be punishing the children for the actions of an adult.
And ignoring the fact that your policy basically forces abortion on anyone who accidentally gets pregnant.
I hate to bring of the pro life pro choice debate. But when you start pro forced abortion I think pretty much everyside is going to respond negatively.
Simple fact is. Birth control is not perfect. And abstinence even less so. And using finances to force anyone in poverty to abortion when they accidentally get pregnant. Or to force all poor married couples into abstinence. Is morally way worse then the idea of supporting the children.
And unfortunately. Anytime you try to value welfare on the right or wrong of having children. Those are the choices you are making.
I'll also add. Its far far from an old fashioned idea. The very possibility for people to avoid children is an extreamly modern one. Pre the 1960s it was impossible. And morally shunned for married couples to avoid children. And the idea that birth control was widely effective and available. Did not really hit until the 1980s.
Heck even as recent as the 2000 doctors failed to warn patients on birth control of medicines that can cause it to fail.
Not to mention the many many health reasons (for women) why some couples still need to choose less effective methods.
The only truly effective method with limited health. Involves males choosing a permanent solution. (Yes it is permanent. You have a max of 10 years for reversal. And even then odds are far from 100%. )
Hell of a choice to ask a young couple to make. If they are to poor to have children now.
Yeah... I'm split on this.
On one hand, parents have to be the main caregivers and support for their children, meeting their needs. It's not practical or reasonable for all children to be entirely supported by the state.
Parents should absolutely make a reasonable best guess on whether they're able to care for a child and that has to include financial.
On the other hand, do we want a society where children are a luxury only affordable to the rich and wealthy? It's got shades of some really dark stuff from the 20th century.
Clearly the answer is that we need a society where anyone who wants children can get themselves into a place where they can take care of them. All the usual, a financial safety net, appreciate medical care, housing, etc. all the stuff we all know we're supposed to be working towards.