valek879

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[–] valek879 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Nah the take is:

Often times in media the only queer representation is a villain.

It's actually difficult to find characters that are gender non-conforming and good or at least neutral in any media before like 2006. Only having queer people show up as villains subtly hints at your brain that something is wrong with queer people, that you should be wary, that they are bad. This is held out in scientific studies and also applies to bipoc representation in media too.

I'm all for queer and bipoc villains but we also deserve to be heroes.

[–] valek879 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Currently looking at Australia or NZ.

NZ seems like a pretty good bet although I'd love to know what I'm getting into if anyone has more thoughts. And I've been to Australia. I know what I'm getting into there but god I like Brizzy. The most racist people I've ever met have been in Australia.

Ireland has been of interest, my stepsister lives there and is trans.

And France, Spain, Portugal all come to mind also.

I think most important part of this is being open and informed on a new set of challenges. Everywhere has their own problems and I need to know about them but frankly we have the luxury of picking. Some of my friends do not and will not. We are all scared of what the future brings.

[–] valek879 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thanks for the quick reply! I've wondered about Canadian citizenship through family ties before, but my mom would have to assert her citizenship first and that'd never happen!

Also thanks for your well wishes. It's a pretty trying time. We're good, my partner and I, for now since we live in a liberal city on the West Coast. But I've read books. How long will that last? Nobody knows right now.

I hope your daughter's friend is okay and stays safe!

[–] valek879 10 points 1 day ago (8 children)

I've seen a couple of your posts. Is your daughter trans? I only ask because as a trans person I'm needing to get healthcare wherever I move to and my needs seem tog globally be getting more controversial. Any tips for getting out?

[–] valek879 18 points 3 days ago (4 children)

"Shooting death." Can we not say he murdered the homeless man?

Like oh no, the gun shot and this man spontaneously died! Fucking passive voice bullshit.

[–] valek879 27 points 1 week ago

The seat was filled by a Democrat or an independent. By blocking the election the Republicans are able to maintain a majority for a little while longer and do super cool things like elect a speaker of the house.

[–] valek879 7 points 1 week ago

I think the point is that adopting should be much easier. I'm not sure I agree but if that's the premise I can't really disagree.

[–] valek879 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No idea for the US but a few years ago South Korea dealt with a similar situation. It was revealed that the president had a friend who was acting as an unpaid, unelected advisor making decisions for the president, seeing classified information, and helping set national policy. They had million person protests in the middle of Seoul that culminated in the impeachment of their president and her removal from office. The advisor was also arrested and sentenced to 20 years or something.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2016_South_Korean_political_scandal

[–] valek879 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Any chance you could link to this or help me find more stuff from Robert? I am always interested in his takes.

[–] valek879 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As an American I agree with everything you said after your BTW. It's fucking wild that Trump is as awful as he is. It's wise that he seems to be genuine about the Canada stuff. I've lived close to the border for a long time and America's hat stuff is common... But like it's a meme, it's not supposed to be real life. What a fucking lunatic we voted for. I'm sorry, I'm setting up to get out as soon as anti-trans stuff gets rolling.

[–] valek879 1 points 3 weeks ago

Honestly I'm sure I'll find it similar but it's the last book, I've just got to try! I've set the series down for a break and a change of pace whole I read the latest Stormlight book, Wind and Truth. It's a good break.

[–] valek879 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Don't force it! I think if you read books solely because other people say it's good then you're doing it wrong! :)

If you were interested in the Cosmere but wanted something light...much lighter. Then try Tress and the Emerald Sea. The narrator breaks the 4th wall a bit and speaks directly to you but if that isn't an immediate deal breaker the story is light-hearted and adventurous. It follows a girl, Tress, as she leaves home to save her beau.

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