[-] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago

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[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Wow wow, easy now haha. I don't think capitalism is good or necessary (although if things in general happen, it's part of nature in some way).

I only think it might have sped up innovation, which is also not per se good or bad. But there are probably more possible drivers / factors to that. I know for example that in a communist approach, innovation can be driven by giving the best performing team the lead on architectural decisions. Which is interesting.

My main point was though that nothing is necessary. I fully support human rights, but on a philosophical level they are not necessary. We just want them to be important, we call them necessary.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

But nothing is actually necessary. It depends on what you want to achieve.

The speed of innovation might have gotten a big impulse by capitalism; I'm not sure if we'd technologically be where we are now otherwise. Of course one could argue that we do not need tech in its current form, which is fair.

[-] [email protected] 27 points 1 month ago

I.. might have been that co-worker.

[-] [email protected] 23 points 5 months ago

The first gun they'll give me I'll aim at myself and be done with it.

[-] [email protected] 27 points 6 months ago

I'm not sure if that will joyfully co-exist with happiness.

[-] [email protected] 37 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

In general, I like all people more as a concept than in person.

[-] [email protected] 39 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I read this as "two guys and a girl get it on". I thought he was trying to ignore a threesome in a public elevator, while they were trying to make him greet them. Was wondering why he even entered in the first place.

I need some more sleep.

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Ik ben nooit zo'n ster geweest in wiskunde (en de reken-kant van natuurkunde) op de middelbare, maar heb de laatste jaren veel interesse ontwikkeld voor het onderwerp en zoek werkboeken / bronnen voor een goede herintroductie.

Het prettigst zou ik een werkboek vinden waar je direct in kunt schrijven. Een wiskunde/natuurkunde vakantieboek zat ik ook aan te denken. Laagdrempelig en toch er mee bezig.

Iemand die toevallig tips heeft? (Engels mag ook)

[-] [email protected] 53 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

She wanted to stay with me even without kids, but after the first days I saw her become an empty shell of a person. This was her meaning of life, apparently even more than we both thought. I could leave her, but that felt horrible as well.

Now we have a kid; the first few years were a personal nightmare for me because of mental health issues. Lack of sleep icw depression and what more makes parenting extra intense. I tried with all my might to not let it affect our child, I hope I managed to so far.

It's a lot better now, the kid is great and I'm amazed how much love I feel, but I always feel guilty. For giving life (something that goes against my principles as I did not want to be born myself) and for not being able to 50/50 care because of the mental shit that makes me unable to. Aside from that the usual, missing my freedom, the continuous responsibility.

I would not do it again in a reset of my life, not because of the kid who I genuinely think is great, but due to my lack of mental health, which has the potential each and everyday to ruin it all for them (which is a compulsive intrusive thought in my mind). But I hang on, I try to.

With all the love and respect, I would not recommend anyone in my situation.

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Hebben jullie het idee dat er veel nepnieuws is in aanloop naar de verkiezingen?

Ik heb het idee dat ik veel minder (nieuwe) gekke geluiden hoor, dan vorige verkiezingen, misschien omdat de politiek al wat rumoerig is momenteel. Het artikel deed me twijfelen.

[-] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago

"Me" not allowed.

[-] [email protected] 43 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Euthanasia should be available for anyone at any age. You don't choose to be born, life has no inherent value, suffering is strictly personal. Suicide is a terrible option with lots of drama, an extremely high failure rate and lifelong treatments or medication that are seen as the solution by society is a conservative convulsion of keeping people alive under any circumstances.

We could set up three sessions with a therapist, to keep people from losing loved ones too fast. But honestly, to me that would feel patronizing. That other people find it important someone stays alive is their problem. If it hurts them too much they can do the same.

There is joy in life and that's beautiful, but on a scale suffering has the possibility to be more intense. Let people die without drama, let them say goodbye if they want with a ceremony, let them choose.

That's the next step in the mentality of a modern civilization. It will fix the drama of wars, hunger and pain as you always have a simple painless solution if the suffering gets too heavy. Just end it, peacefully, whenever you want.

[-] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago

As far as value goes, I don't particularly value my own life or that of a fish. I do value the suffering of both while living though, as in I want to minimise that as much as possible.

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Hoe dan.. Ik begrijp dat veel hardwerkende Nederlanders op locatie moeten zijn om praktische redenen, maar er is toch ook een groot deel wat veel meer thuis werkt?

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Ik heb toch zo'n verdraaid omvangrijke aversie tegen fooien geven en de sociale frictie die het met zich mee brengt; met name in het buitenland. Neem m'n geld, neem alles, maar laat mij je niet moeten beoordelen met een paar centen.

Misschien is mijn brein wat extreem, maar bij tijd en wijle zit ik het halve diner in m'n achterhoofd met hoe ik iemand niet te min doe of juist ongemakkelijk laat voelen met te veel.

De 10% regel bij eten gaat aardig, maar dan kom je soms ook net vaag uit; en bij een laatste hoteldag werkt dat in mijn beleving ook niet goed (afhankelijk van het land). Om niet te spreken van hoe suf het voelt bij pinnen om af te ronden, wat soms selfs een extra actie van het personeel vergt aan 't pinapparaat.

Hoe doen jullie dat en hoe ga je er mentaal mee om?

TL;NG: Haat aan de fooi en help deze dwaas.

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