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[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Thanks! Very useful advice really. I'm the kind of person who wouldn't have thought about this until way too late. So far I'm just starting to get the hang of it. My goal is to get to the point where I can design original art that I can then cross-stitch and frame. My first project is a doodle my 5 year-old made the other day that I traced using an app meant for pixel art and then made into a very basic pattern (one colour, no backstitching or half stitches). Time to work on it is limited but I'm having lots of fun so far

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Thanks for all the good advice! And for taking the time to type it down. I was wondering about the knot actually, thanks for clarifying that.

I love the idea of playing with the number of strands to emphasize parts of the design, hopefully will soon be designing original work. The compression glove seems to be a must, I didn't even know they existed!

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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by [email protected] to c/lemmy_stitch
 

Hi everyone! First off thank you all for sharing your amazing work here. I've been popping in here for a few weeks now and I'm happy to say you're all the reason today I've got my first kit. I'd tried cross-stitching (very basic stuff though) as a kid but now I can feel the calling is strong. I'm very excited to share my attempts with you soon!

What are some useful tips you've learned that a beginner like me should know? Things to avoid or look for?

Are there any apps that you find useful and that are specific for cross-stitching?

I'll appreciate all the help. Thank you!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

Granted. You know the outcome before you get involved, meaning before you even establish contact. Everyone you cross paths with is potentially a relationship with an outcome you now know, as a result you have a natural emotional response to each one without any of them actually happening in reality. Any exposure to people becomes unbearable, merely going outside carries the risk of having the worst possible outcomes imaginable become part of your headspace, constantly. This dumps you into a permanent state of neurosis and paranoia, you start isolating yourself from anyone and then become incapable of functioning mentally and emotionally. Of course no one believes you and after your family gets involved, you are forcibly committed to a mental institution where there's an unending stream of worst possible outcomes for you to know.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Thanks to these radicals children are gonna grow dependent on handouts, thinking they deserve stuff just for being "good" instead of earning an honest living by working 3 shifts at two jobs like the rest of us.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Granted. You're given such wish, someone else's wish. You're now eternally bound to make it happen.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

Granted. The limits of your human mind remain the same: too small, too fragile. Unable to comprehend the breadth of the cosmos itself, you're now like a rubber balloon trying to contain the ocean. You go immediately insane.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Granted. Your car falls off the side of the road on your way home. You're now in a coma.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

People! What a bunch of bastards!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Hope you're well stranger

[–] [email protected] -4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Cool. I'm not making an argument nor countering whatever it is you believe, please don't mistake my engagement, have zero interest in 'discussing' with you. I was merely answering your question about my previous comment. Live as you see fit.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (7 children)

Right or wrong is beside the point. Therapy is about emotional balance and well-being. I sincerely hope you're well but these kinds of rants often come across as personal anger being projected on topic x. I don't doubt that's how you see the world around you at the moment but not everyone does and that doesn't mean they're wrong, blind or stupid. Some people can see the same atrocious state you see and counterbalance it with the good they can also see around them. Being aware of our species wrong-doings is as important as becoming sensitive to its virtues. If someone can't see any virtues at all, to the point they advocate death, they're more likely either insensitive or have been handed a very rough hand in life. Therapy can help in any of those cases.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

It's started!

 
 
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