s0larfl4re

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how to help friend: likes girl but language barrier occurs in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What language(s) does she speak? If it’s English, he’ll just have to learn it anyway eventually so what better motivation than to date someone who only speaks English. International relationships where the partners have different motherlanguages and different degrees of fluency in a shared language are not uncommon.

apparently, he just said she speaks russian but not fluent

I am just very confused where the two keep meeting with him being on call with the family all the time. Are you in Uni and he’s constantly on the phone during lectures or what?

i live in us, him in poland. he tells me he usually calls the woman in front of his parents

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how to help friend: likes girl but language barrier occurs (self.relationship_advice)
 

my (22nb, 22ftm[?]) friend mark (20m) lived in poland since he was 4. he speaks russian, polish, and english.

his English isn’t the best sometimes, and he has foreign accent. he is in love with a woman (24f) he wants to date, but she only speaks English and his family only speaks russian and polish too. he is almost always talking to family on call the whole time in russian, and it gets awkward because she also can’t understand it.

Update, Too Afraid To Ask because she’s a teen, but can this be seen as an intentionally physically abusive friendship? in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 2 points 4 days ago

yeah probably

hi guys 👋 i’m lgbt and born in russia in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

ohhhhhh. how did you learn english? random question, i know 😭

hi guys 👋 i’m lgbt and born in russia in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 2 points 5 days ago (3 children)

ууу! i hear finland is very happy and accepting, is this true?

can you say “what it means?” as proper english? in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 3 points 5 days ago

yeah! in Russia, it’s said as «что это значит?» or directly “what it means?”

I’m too afraid to ask because it seems really stupid or pathologising or whatever, but are these normal aspirations? in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 3 points 6 days ago

be so beautiful people of all genders and orientations would be head over heels for me

how would all orientations be even possible? for example, straight women only like men, and jaiden is a woman.

hi guys 👋 i’m lgbt and born in russia in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (5 children)

как там в европе? and idk, im not openly nonbinary to homophobic people especially, but i worry for the trans people and lgbt as a whole

что вы думаете о артуре пирожкове (александре ревве)? in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 1 points 6 days ago

i know, i was just bored

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hi guys 👋 i’m lgbt and born in russia (self.nonbinary)
 

i find it funny that i happen to be lgbt but was born in one of the countries that totally hates us. i’m nonbinary [she/he/they] and bi/pan :)

i moved to the us with my family at age 10 in 2013.

Did she cheat on him? in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 2 points 6 days ago

if guy was her age: yes

since guy is not her age and she can’t consent: not cheating.

can you say “what it means?” as proper english? in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 2 points 1 week ago

thanks!!

can you say “what it means?” as proper english? in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 7 points 1 week ago (5 children)

that makes sense, thank you!!

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can you say “what it means?” as proper english? (self.nostupidquestions)
 

some people who i talk to say that, like my russian friends

что вы думаете о артуре пирожкове (александре ревве)? in c/[email protected]
[–] s0larfl4re 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

я думала о нем из-за его песни «зацепила».

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ama. i’m chinese and russian. (self.askmeanything)
 

half-european, half-asian 😊

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will i fit in more with china/japan or russia or their communities in terms of acceptance/blending in? (self.nostupidquestions)
 

i am actually half-white, half-asian. i don’t know what community will accept me more, the russian communities online/in the us (since i probably won’t go there) or the east asian (chinese/japanese) ones.

i clearly will not look full white and it may have people say im not “real russian”.

dad is chinese-russian, lived in germany for a bit. (baden-württemberg i think). mom is russian.

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what would happen if i go back to moscow in this summer? (self.tooafraidtoask)
 

i am russian. i moved here as a child at like 10 years. i currently live in united states but my mom and i miss russia.

we want to go back for visiting but i don’t know how safe it would be.

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что вы думаете о артуре пирожкове (александре ревве)? (self.russia)
submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by s0larfl4re to c/[email protected]
7 comments fedilink
 

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what’s the most romantic gesture in your opinion? (self.asklemmy)
 

honestly, im not sure. i guess just any way that shows he or she cares about me can be romantic to me. maybe spending time with me and doing things for me??

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we are not our government ‼️ (self.antirudisc)
submitted 2 weeks ago by s0larfl4re to c/antirudisc
28 comments fedilink
 

please don’t hate the russian people or those of russian descent because of the government or putin 🙏

we do not all agree with the government. we are our own people with our own thinking patterns.

if i’ve said something like that i hate america, i just don’t like trump. but there are many cool americans.

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