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Both sides have copper plating to wet solder to.

I can definitely tell you I'm comfortable with that.

If family doesn't know I'm dead in 3 days, they ain't family.

The likelihood that I die, and my loved ones decide to just turn off the server while knowing it's where the Vaultwarden software lives, before they get access to said Vaultwarden, is very very slim.

Self host whatever you want. Even Deadman switches.

The key is informing your loved ones the requirements for the switch. Just like if they don't know to request access in other Deadman switches.

You can self host Vaultwarden, which is essentially self managed Bitwarden.

And the feature can be setup fairly easily.

So a control system issue.... Dumb question, but have you tried removing power completely from it? Try to get it to reset. (Is where I'd start at least)

If that doesn't work, then it's essentially just replace the control board, as the program memory is likely corrupt.

After reading other comments it seems what you're really needing is a diagnostic guide instead of a repair manual. There aren't many things that have diagnostic guides, as those doing repairs are expected to know how to diagnose.

The simple breakdown of diagnosis is: what is it not doing that it should? How would that logically happen? Go to that point and test. For example, the drum never spins when it should. The drum is spun by a belt, is the belt broken? Fix it. Not broken belt? What moves the belt? A motor, test the motor. Is it getting power as it should? Yes, bad motor. No, what feeds the power to the motor....... and on and on until you find the problem.

Man how would it be to have 100,000 to lose to spammers.

Remember to plug it in, you don't want to have to go scrambling for a charger in the middle of the meeting.

Did you expect anything different?

With year end reviews coming up.... This hits hard

The bride has JUGS

If I were in your shoes I'd sit down with the son and ask what he'd like, and try and explain why I'm uncomfortable being around his mother and her new fling. Then in the conversation figure out if his desire is greater than my hesitations, come to an understanding on what we feel the vacation would look like.

Would it be all 4 just.... Hanging out? Then probably not. That's the most awkward. Or would it be that there are things to do (planned) that could pair off and have some time with son, while his mother and fling does whatever they do? As long as those times are more frequent, and son likes the idea, sure I'd probably accept.