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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21043756

my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys. she writes love letters to them and stuff like that and acts super guilty when i end up finding out.

she even talks about dating these guys. should i break up?

when she thinks I don’t know, she messages other guys.

she posts the messages in the gc that she doesn’t think I’m in anymore.

she talks about dirty stuff w guys and has many photos of them :(

she also barely talks to me. she used to talk 2 me a lot, she seemed in love w me. she would have all these love letters and romantic bios and status, but now it’s w the guy, it seems.

and she barely talks to me bc she’s in the gc. then, when I ask her smth to do w the guy, she acts really guilty and says something like “oh… hi…”

“Don’t worry about it 😅”

“I can’t say”

Etc.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21014160

Genuine question.

My post had -15 votes on that instance for asking if a user can get banned on Reddit because he banned me on a sub just for speaking Russian

Genuine question.

this was a while ago, so i forgot the sub, but the mod of it permabanned me for speaking russian because “he and his friends didn’t like my culture.” i ranted about this in another sub, but i quickly became shadowbanned. eventually, i was permabanned from Reddit as i apparently violated a rule and harassed a guy? I didn’t even put the guys username, nor do I remember it—it was definitely generated by Reddit tho.

of course, it’s been a while ago, so I don’t want anyone to actually do anything, but this is more of a genuine question rather than “I have his username and all his details: I want him banned.”

i’m bi. so is my gf katya.

however, katya is also a HUGE right-wing Trump supporter. she literally follows him on every single account and says stuff like “no one cares abt lgbt rights” which is an odd thing to say as a bi person.

Katya is also very nice to me and very much in love with me, though, despite our differing opinions, and I know she’d be offended if I questioned them.

so i (13f) am friends with nadya (14f). i desire a connection with her and i’ve noticed i get jealous when nadya does things like touch her attachment’s arm (she develops attachments).

i want someone to connect with me like that. lately, i’ve been having dreams about her. nadya has insomnia, so in one, she called me on the phone and told me (after i told her to get a doctor’s appointment) that she slept a full 8 hours and thanked me for the advice.

nadya gives me eye contact, listens to me, and is very sweet to me in my dreams. i even went to her house, which i notice is a common dream i have with people i’m “in love” with.

i haven’t been to her house in two years because she’s so busy. i can’t believe i feel THIS way about the girl i used to be jealous of. (she used to be rude to ppl and i was jealous bc she dated my crush at the time.)

when nadya tells HER she loves her, it makes me kinda wish she was like that w me but idk if i just desire connection or what

I had a girlfriend who was usually quite nice, but she mostly had internalized homophobia, thought she was better than everyone else and "one of the good ones".

when someone says “i’m not homophobic, i have an lgbt friend”, she was the friend in question.

anyway, at least we broke up, because she was seeing a guy behind my back, leaving my texts on read, and seeing him? so i think she cheated, even tho she “apologized”.

she also seemed edgy and “hated” everything. yeahhhhh…

as a teenager, i know about two people (ages 13 and 14) who snore. usually, i don’t come across this, so i was wondering how common/normal it is.

people have told me that snoring at that age is not normal and a sign of sleep apnea.