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[–] downtide 2 points 1 year ago

The quickest way I actually did see someone get fired at my place was by posting racist shit on Facebook - on an account that was followed by many of his colleagues, including his manager. He was summarily dismissed at the start of his next shift.

Another one stole customers' credit card numbers, but that one ended up with a criminal record.

[–] downtide 3 points 1 year ago

I think I'll remain agnostic on that one. Ask me again in 50 years and I'll probably know the answer by then. Unless I happen to somehow reach the age of 106 without dying, in which case I'll take a raincheck.

[–] downtide 5 points 1 year ago

The Peak District is right on my doorstep (I'm near Manchester). Monsal Dale, near Little Longstone, is lovely. It was a regular place ofr my family to visit when I was a kid, and I still go up there sometimes. The walk along the river from there to Millers Dale is lovely. And there's a pub at Monsal dale viaduct (or at least, there was, not sure if it's still open).

More locally, I like the area around Uppermill, Diggle and Delph (north-east of Oldham). There's a great little riverside cafe caled the Lime Kiln, just north of Uppermill. It gets busy at weekends though.

A couple of weeks ago I went up to the Northumbria coast for a holiday. Warkworth, Alnwick, Bamburgh, Holy Island.... it's all beautiful around there.

[–] downtide 3 points 1 year ago

Reddit "stuff" isn't automatically crossposted here. You'll only see it when users decided to do that themselves. There are a number of communities that are equivalent to subreddits but the content in them is all new. Lemmy doesn't have any direct feed to Reddit content.

[–] downtide 9 points 1 year ago

I now fully understand why those cars keep exploding... 😂

[–] downtide 5 points 1 year ago

It seems that this happens when you subscribe to a community on a different instance from your own. You can still read, post and interact exactly as if you were fully subscribed, you're just not counted in the number of subscribers. I've been told that you can force the system to subscribe you properly by repeatedly unsubbing and re-subbing, but I've had no luck with doing that so I just leave them alone now.

[–] downtide 1 points 1 year ago

I think its a GOOD thing to do that. I mean, the more content there is here, the faster it will grow, right?

[–] downtide 6 points 1 year ago
[–] downtide 1 points 1 year ago

I like it better than Lemmy/Kbin. It's more polished, more user-friendly, fewer bugs and missing features. But, Mastodon doesn't have a way of running groups/communities effectively, and that's what I'm really looking for, and why I'm here.

[–] downtide 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

OMG those quotes mention so many of my early internet memories. Dreamwidth. And before that, Livejournal before it sucked. And Diaryland. And Diary-X. And egroups. I miss those days so much. Twitter and Reddit weren't the first to jump the shark, by a long shot.

[–] downtide 29 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I think lemmings is the best one. Lemmings are cute.

[–] downtide 1 points 1 year ago

Grocery delivery. I can't drive, and it costs me £4 to get to the nearest supermarket and back, with whatever I can carry in my hands, on the bus. I can order 4 times that volume or more for home delivery, for £3 or less. The only catch is a £40 minimum purchase price but I can easily manage that if I order once a week or less (and any time my order falls short, I just add in one or two bottles of wine).

 

It's almost the end of June and that means it's time for your mid-year review/reset. Regular reviews are important in planning, because it helps you keep track of what's still important and how you're getting on in approaching your goals.

There are a few steps to consider.

  1. Flip through your past pages looking for tasks that are not yet done. For each task, ask yourself three questions. Is it vital? Does it matter? Are there any negative consequences of not doing it? If the answer to any of these three questions is "yes". migrate the task forward into July. If all three answers are "no", then this task probably isn;t important enough to bother with any more, so bin it.

  2. Take a look at your goals. Are you making progress towards them? If not, why not? What needs to change so that you can? Do you have too many goals? You can also apply the same three questions to your goals too, and maybe shelve the ones that don't matter. On the other hand if you've made good progress and have cleared your goals with ease, you can consider some new ones to add in.

  3. If you're tracking habits, take a look at those and see where your successes and failures are. If you find you're blasting through with ease, drinking 8 cups of water or doing your 30 minute daily workout without even needing to think about it, you can probably stop tracking those habits. You got them. For ones you're never achieving, consider again whether they really matter, and if they don't, consider dropping them.

  4. If you have an end-of-year review from December 2022, take a look at it now and see if there are any insights there into what was important for you at that time, and whether anything has changed 6 months later.

  5. If you're working in a bullet journal or customised planner, consider your spreads too. Are the ones you have working for you? Do you want to make any changes for July? Uncompleted spreads are a sign that they're not working for you so try to figure out what you dislike about the spread and why it's not useful, then decide whether to either dump the spread altogether, or re-design it. Also consider if something was missing, and whether you want to add anything new.

  6. Finally (and this one applies equally to long-form journalling as well as planning and bullet-journalling) think about the past six months and how it's gone overall for you. What were your great successes so far this year? What have you learned? What memories do you particularly cherish? What didn't go so well and how could you have handled it better? If you're working in a planner or BuJo you can answer these questions in a mid-year review spread. If you're journalling long-form, you can write a page or two to answer them. Either way, don't forget to put the page number into your index, because you'll want to refer to it at your end-of-year review too.

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Everbook (www.youtube.com)
submitted 1 year ago by downtide to c/journaling
 

A comment from u/foxtrots reminded me of Everbook, which is a simple system of journalling on loose-leaf pages. I haven't tried it myself but I might, when I've filled my current bullet journal).

 

I think you all know what's frustrating me 😆

And, just a reminder, it's not expected to respond in comments to these prompts; you're supposed to write your answers in your own journal 😊

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by downtide to c/main
 

I have created a community, and made several posts. On one post, I see a comment, and have replied to it. That's the only comment I can see. However, now a friend of mine has joined my community and he can see lots of comments on many posts (he's sent me screenshots to prove it). I can't see any of the comments he can see.

He is on a different instance, (lemmy.world) but that doesn't seem to be the issue, because the one comment I can see is also from a user on lemmy.world, and the comments my friend can see are from both instances. There are even comments from users on sh.itjust.works that I can't see either.

What's going on? Why can't I see comments on my own community and how do I fix it?

If I can't resolve it, I will just have to close the community because it's pointless if I can't see or respond to anything that anyone else says.

And it's just occurred to me that I may not even see replies to this, if there are any. .. so I may never know the answer...

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Well, this is frustrating (self.journaling)
submitted 1 year ago by downtide to c/journaling
 

Apparently, people are leaving comments to my posts but I can't see any of them, save for one that I replied to a couple of days ago. To everyone else, I can only apologise, if you are waiting for a reply I am unfortunately not able to give them.

If anyone knows how I may resolve this, please advise by creating a new post (if you reply to this one, I may never see it).

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Commonplace Book (self.journaling)
submitted 1 year ago by downtide to c/journaling
 

I had never heard of a commonplace book until I started to follow the journaling community on Youtube. When I discovered it, I realised that it's something I'd already been keeping for years.

A commonplace book is essentially a repository of information that you find, and want to keep or remember. Quotes, maxims, proverbs, shower-thoughts, notes on books you've read, even recipies, reference tables, letters, poems... it's like a scrapbook of words. Or a personal encyclopedia. I've heard it described as the writer's equivalent of an artist's sketchbook, and as I'm both an artist and a writer, I think this analogy is perfect.

It's not just for writers though. It's for anyone. Readers, researchers, students, anyone who has an interest in just about any topic. You're a keen cook? Keep a commonplace book of recipes you find. A gardener? Keep one for information about plants you're growing or interested in growing. Avid consumer of Netflix? Keep track of series you're watching and what you learn from them.

Commonplace books have a long history, going back to Roman philosophers such as Marcus Aurelius (Meditations), and they rose in popularity during the Rennaissance. With the advent of the printing press, many were published.

A commonplace book is a type of journal but it's not a diary (which is the most usual way a journal is structured). It differs from a diary in that its content is not chronological, but rather, categorised by topic. Thus, the most critical part of your commonplace book is the Index. I keep mine in loose-leaf binders which makes searching and categorising even easier.

For those looking for a digital solution, the rise of information management apps such as Notion, Obsidian and Logseq are absolutely perfect for this purpose. Commonplacing is exactly what these apps are created for, even if the creators of them weren't aware of it.

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How to Bullet Journal (www.youtube.com)
submitted 1 year ago by downtide to c/journaling
 

Bullet journaling is a complex topic and I can't explain it any better than the man who invented it, Ryder Carroll. In this video, he shows what it's all about and how to get started.

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submitted 1 year ago by downtide to c/main
 

I've noticed that any community I've subscribed to that's on a different server is showing on my list as "subscription pending". Everything seems to work though, I can still comment and post on these communities without a problem, so I'm not too concerned about that.

However I do have one other question about it. I've experienced difficulty finding communities that are not on this server, and been told its because no-one from this server has subscribed to it yet. But... if subscriptions to other servers' communities are always "pending", that means no-one from this server ever actually can properly subscribe to them. Does this mean that the difficulties will persist regardless? Or is a "pending" subscription sufficient?

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by downtide to c/main
 

SOLUTION FOUND - thank you

There is a community called Tarot on lemmy.world, and I want to subscribe to it. The url is https://lemmy.world/c/tarot. I've been to lemmy.world when not logged in and I can see it there. But when I try to find it from here, I can't. I tried putting [email protected] in the search and got "no results found". I've been told that "someone needs to search for it, for it to appear", but I have already tried to search for it, many times. What else needs to happen for me to be able to see and subscribe to this community?

Or do I just have to make a second account on lemmy.world?

 

This is a community for people who use journals, planners, bullet journals, art/junk journals and diaries of any kind (both paper and digital). Whether you’re journaling for productivity, self-help, mindfulness, memory-keeping, creativity, project mamagement or for any other purpose, this is the place to share your practises, ask for advice and get inspired.

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