Dude, I don't know what this conflict between you and her is about, but you've got to stop eventually. I can tell a certain amount of it is deception on your part, which is why you're already banned from both lemm.ee (something that happened multiple times) and on your lemmy.cafe account which your recent fedilore post that got removed (because it's deception) makes explicit, which means you are ban evading, something the people here take seriously. Maybe that's why some people said you were banned from Tumblr (where your posts are archived but where you aren't). Going by the rabbit hole, this deception of yours also got you banned from Reddit (quite a few times, more than can be linked), Twitter (as the user StalkDat; I'm not going to link to there as per the rules, but you are ban evading as StalkDeez), and DeviantArt (again, a few times; their forums are filled with your crusade), which has begun turning into a pedophilia website going by the replies to anyone bringing it up. You also recently had a video removed from YouTube, which they rarely do except in absolute emergencies; which, again, shows the gravity of the deception). I don't know how it could be easier to read the room. People are catching onto the fact that this is tiring and deceptive, and the modlogs being the modlogs doesn't make them accurate or honest.
Take your own advice. Disengage. Unless you're providing said advice only as a form of attack. In which case stop.