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[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

How is that post wrong ?

How is anything I have said wrong.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

Thanks I agree and this is a valuable perspective

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

So funny thing is republicans say the same thing. There is a famous quote "“Conservatism is progressivism driving the speed limit.”"

I would argue the left needs to take some responsibility with getting distracted in the culture war and losing site of the working class. Look at Bernie you can go back to 2016 and see people saying that bernie was a bro candidate and not progressive enough compared to hillarly on insert x wedge issue here

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

there just isn't a sure path to success anymore. It's possible to technically do everything right and still fail.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I agree that we need to be more technocratic as I think democracy is kind of running it's course in the world. Maga also has a lot of contradictions to be fair

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

I like this actually

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

do you have an actual answer to the question ?

Also even if you disagree with that, that is how they feel and when it comes to votes weather or not how they feel is justified or not doesn't matter

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I am going to be honest, I think women need to be a a part of this. We are used to being right in regards to gender conflict because usually we are but one thing I agree with men on is that every woman says they want men to share their feelings more but many women lose respect for a man they see as weak.

Bell Hooks talks a lot about this so you can go read her.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

the issue with that is with less women dating period since less women want to settle. Would that work ?

There just isn't a gaurentee or even a good enough chance that being a progressive or supporting progressive politics will get you a girlfriend or wife so would this kind of incentive system work ?

If you want the carrot and stick to work you have to give the carrot.

Telling women to just date random progressive guys for the cause even ignoring the fact it's not ery ethical. I just don't think you could convince enough women to do it for it to work

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago

I think housing is another policy that benefits young men a bit more.

Young women now move out of their parents house at higher rates for a reasons.

They are more likely to go to college so they can live in dorms.

A thriving sex work economy allows us to just afford it.

A woman can find a boyfriend easier to help split the cost of rent

 

I think progressives never thought about this because we banked on immigration and demographic change allowing us to win culturally and electorally but the issue is immigrants tend to be overwhelmingly male, that is how Trump won actually he won over a lot of Hispanic,Black,Asian and indigenous men who feel humiliated by a new culture, economy and world.

So what can we do rhetorically and policy wise to win more young men over ?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 23 hours ago

I am fine with the post I do age play and raceplay like nothing they do say can bother me

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

xbox is on death's door

Phl spencer pointed out last gen was the worst to lose because of digital game libraries

 
 

So a little background, I have dated a boy for a long time and then we took a break because of mistakes I made and I'm just going to be honest me not being a great boyfriend.

I have wanted to get back together with him so bad I have thought about it and what I want to say to hi and mapped out conversations in my head with him thought about how I will say sorry and make it right.

Everyone literally everyone says just move on just move on but no I want to make it right and make it work.

Could this be an Autistic fixation.

 
 

Especially for men but even women too.

like with how much more men statistically benefit from relationships and how hard dating is for younger men I just don't buy they would break off a relationship with a woman who cheated on them. Especially if she gave them a good deal because not only is fending a girlfriend harder but women just won't put up with mediocrity anymore we only date if we are interested we have our own money (young women out earn young men), our emotional support structure is better and the orgasm gap is real most men don't measure up.

So would you seriously rather be single then settle ? Every man says this but looking at the data it seems none of them mean it.

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