FierroGamer

joined 2 years ago
[–] FierroGamer 6 points 1 year ago

Tomorrow? Lmao my guy lives in the past

[–] FierroGamer 1 points 1 year ago

Si tratas a una cita como una entrevista de trabajo, no te sorprendas de no obtener el puesto.

[–] FierroGamer 6 points 1 year ago

Compatibility, though it's usually forced, like the Xbox controller with a drm chip that you need a workaround for

[–] FierroGamer 6 points 1 year ago

I recently asked my so to buy me a reindeer plushie, I feel identified

[–] FierroGamer 2 points 1 year ago

Argentinian here, At least it was expected, dude acts very much like an American right wing grifter and people love it.

At the very least he is very lazy, a while back in Congress he was called out for having a 48% assistance to his job voting for laws. In other words, dude just chilled at home and then would complain about the laws that passed in his absence (him screaming is what gets people moist).

If we're lucky, maybe he will half ass it enough to not do too much damage, maybe play some golf like a similar screaming politician.

[–] FierroGamer 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If it wasn't clear, I wasn't saying he's the most horrible person in the world but rather that his issue is most likely linked to the way he sees women.

I also could've sworn I made a point about it being a societal issue rather than just that individual's

[–] FierroGamer 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Cool! I didn't know I was getting good numbers. That's how I read the thing but you're welcome to disagree, I certainly don't read "convinced a woman to touch him gently" as someone recognizing the woman is a person who might've chosen to do so without convincing the same way she chose to rub his shoulders too.

[–] FierroGamer 4 points 1 year ago

Copium may be a meme, but it's an actual defense mechanism, we convince ourselves of reasons to soften the blow

[–] FierroGamer 7 points 1 year ago

There wasn't, that's what it sounded like to me, you're welcome to disagree, angrily if you feel like it.

[–] FierroGamer 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Helps realizing that it's not that she deserves better but your brain makes up that excuse so it's easier to dump her having an excuse you can believe in... Well, it helps getting over the impulse, it doesn't actually help the situation, I don't think.

[–] FierroGamer 22 points 1 year ago

Yeah, seeing them as a person seems like a crucial part in that equation.

[–] FierroGamer 162 points 1 year ago (22 children)

I feel like the idea that women are otherworldly creatures instead of people and seeing someone being nice to their partner as "the man having tamed a female and convinced her to treat him well" has a lot to do with his problem.

I hate how much that is preserved socially, there's no good reason why that hasn't gone away at least a decade or two ago.

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