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[–] [email protected] 184 points 9 months ago (3 children)

I mean, their use of 'THEN' rather than 'THAN' indicates that they'll soon adopt the socialist agenda, so there's still hope!

[–] [email protected] 25 points 9 months ago

Oh that is just beautiful.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I actually now understand what was meant, because of your comment! I was like Why do they want to receive socialistic agenda later? Incredible what difference a wrong a/e can make! (I'm a non native english speaker, but I think it bothers me/I see it more than the actual natives)

[–] [email protected] 14 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Glad I could help, in a fun way!

Then/than and loose/lose mixups bother me every time I see them and it's "fun" to interpret them as written rather than as they intended!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

What I mean, is that you made me realize what they actually meant, because I've read it as is.

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[–] [email protected] 93 points 9 months ago (11 children)

This is just basic psychology. It takes a long time to change someone's political beliefs, and it isn't effective to just argue with people, even with facts. Interestingly, one way to get people to change their opinion is to frame things in terms of how it affects them and their family.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 9 months ago (3 children)

It took me...I'd say 2 years from being a full conservative to a left-leaning independent. And then another 2 years to being a moderate to progressive liberal.

It does happen. But some people are so rooted in their political identity that they will never change.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago

That’s pretty much the process I went through ~20 years ago. The individual has to care about actual evidence and truth rather than the “truth = agree with me” crap that is common.

I think a big, big part of it is realizing that the people on your side are not necessarily arguing in good faith just because they’re on the “correct” team.

And that’s a pretty big deal when “just ignore that, it’s not real” is a deep core practice of your team.

[–] Socsa 4 points 9 months ago

Oh God you said the L word

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 9 months ago

Also: One conversation might not change someone completely but it can be part of a process. Be happy when people open up and don't try to convince everyone at once. Leave them with a good feeling, that will be more effective than having all the facts right and be angry with them. They will more likely think about it and change their view eventually (looking at you Alex, the first vegan I ever met and who left me with a good impression)

[–] [email protected] 16 points 9 months ago

Yeah but usually people aren't this self aware

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

Exactly, and to anyone reading this: the absolute DUMBEST most useless form of communication is insulting someone you don't agree with. I see it way too much here to be honest. All that does is make you feel better (masturbation) while it makes the recipient more defensive, less inclined to listen, and it reenforces their beliefs that the "opposite side" is just full of angry ignorant people.

If the purpose of your attempt at communication was actual communication and understanding then insulting someone is completely antithetical to that.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Meanwhile people still saying they’d rather be intubated than having taken a vaccine, cursing it with their last breath. Repeated story countless times in hundreds of hospitals

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Meanwhile people still saying they’d rather be intubated than having taken a vaccine

I only wish they get what they ask for.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I don't. Fuck intubating them, fuck admitting them to the hospital at all, that's room that could go to treating someone not dying from the consequences of their own actions.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (4 children)

Hey covid will still kill you even if you call it a hoax.
Rep: you God damn liberals are ruining this county Several family members die
Rep: they died of pneumonia not covid covid is a hoax and a Chinese bioweapon.

Like I can't tell that they actually give a fuck about reality anymore even when they can directly see it killing them they still deny it.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (3 children)

I always had the weird thought that maybe conservatives could be convinced into reason if socialistic ideals were reframed to "sound" more conservative. Sadly I suck at anything relating to politics so eh.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That's how I've framed raising the minimum wage to some hard right co workers.

Why should my tax dollars subsidize Walmart, McDonald's and these other companies that pay minimum wage knowing their workers will be on welfare? If your business has to pay a wage that has to be compensated by the government, it's a failing business.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Due to how I look and where I work, conservatives constantly assume I am one too. I used to discuss/debate them about their views. I gave that up. Now I just say I disagree so that even if they tell others that everyone that talk to agrees with them, somewhere in the back of the their mind they know that’s not true.

[–] nao 11 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It’s interesting how it seems so important for "conservatives" to believe that everyone agrees with them

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Cause they know the policies are cruel and doing cruel things is easier when others buy in.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Everyone should be a business owner!

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[–] [email protected] 58 points 9 months ago (1 children)

This picture sums it up pretty well too.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Lmaoooo just in time for Thanksgiving dinner. 😆 Good luck to all the lemmings out there who have to deal with conservative family members today/tonight.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 9 months ago

To those that are about to dine, we salute you!

[–] [email protected] 37 points 9 months ago

*than

Unless you meant that all conservatists gladly convert to socialist views once confronted with true information.

That one word changes the meaning of the meme drastically. ;)

[–] [email protected] 33 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Where in the US is there socialist agenda?

Our choices are either a stripped rights corporatacracy or full on fascism.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yes but these people think nancy pelosi is a socialist.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago

Medicare, Military, Social Security, Minimum wages and bailouts for banks and billionaires. All forms of wealth distribution but god forbid your country actually implement national healthcare in a way that truly benefits everyone.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 9 months ago

Ok genuinely This has to be satire

Please I beg

[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago (4 children)

This has to be satire, right?

[–] [email protected] 31 points 9 months ago

You'd like to think that, but I've heard multiple people say "better wrong than liberal" without any sarcasm over recent years. This is absolutely a belief of some.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Poe's law: on the internet, it's nearly impossible to tell.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

I really doubt it. Have you seen reality? I wish the whole thing was satire.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It says then not than, the person wants to be enlightened

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

I think you said the unspoken part out loud.

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