Can’t tell if I want to be or date… or both.
traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
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selfcest wins
Chaos is my fuel and motivation for everything.
Something in between? Something entirely different? I love trolling!
"so what are your prounons?"
"they/them"
awkward pause while confusion intensifies
"oh"
Every single time. No I didn't reveal any information about what's in my pants, sorry 8D
That we'll figure out later today ;)
For you, sooner than later ~
Shouldn't people already expecting something like that if they ask you for your pronouns? Now I'm confused 😅
I figure most people are thinking in binary terms and want an indication of whether I'm a boy or a girl. And sometimes maybe "am I attracted to this person or would that make me gay?!"
at least I can pretend they are asking themselves that question, to which the answer is obviously, always YES it is gay xD
Lol, yeah, makes sense 😄
The worst is having to talk and it all falls apart 😮💨
i feel ya there... that's why I'm starting voice therapy, first real session tomorrow afternoon <3 hope you get to work on your voice and achieve what you're looking for!
I'm trying 😅 Had 6 sessions with a vocal therapist a year ago and felt like it helped avoiding damaging strain. I hope you have positive results and have fun with the silliness 💖
Enbies got me bi
I'm transfem enby, and myself is what made me realise I'm also bi... Selfcest is great lol
I have a friend who looks a wee bit like that. I'd pump them.
Male? Female? Who knows? I love fucking.
that's the spirit
God I wish I could figure out how to be androgynous. Too many masc features and I’m not interested in HRT….. am I?
Well damn…. I should look into that maybe….
Ooof, I feel that. But I can't seem to consistently feel the same way about my features for more than 2 months at a time so doing anything to change feels like a gamble.
Anyone else think shape shifting is the best super power because you could just always be yourself, but with whatever bits you want that day?
Honestly shapeshifting is the dream
I don't care, just hug me.
<3
"What's in your pants?!"
Pulls out a Glock
I know, I love it when people get confused because they can't tell, though I do wish I didn't also look like a kid because it's kinda embarrassing to be asked by someone if my parents know where my parents are because they think I'm 12 or 14. (Should add that's just bc of my genetics, I haven't taken anything to change my appearance).
This image is giving me major feminine gender envy feelings